@leah_jane___: What happens when it’s never your turn? #singleat40 #over40andsingle #singleincomenokids

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suzieclarke6
Suzie Clarke :
and you get the comments like awww bless you I'm sorry, what happened?! or Are you just too fussy?!
2026-10-27 18:10:26
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laurs91_
Laur' :
I could cure cancer tomorrow and would get a pat on the back. If I announced i was engaged/pregnant omg there'd be tears and shouts of joy lol
2026-10-19 18:51:42
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nic__p_
nic__p_ :
There is no village for the single/child-free
2026-10-20 13:10:08
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happyhorsegirl113
Happy horse 🐴 👩‍🏭👩‍🌾 💕 :
43 married 17 years no kids very happy nice comfortable life but since I turned 40 I’m over the celebrating other people been to two weddings this year both cost an absolute fortune…..this is going to make me sound so mean but I think our friends and family think that we adore their children and the lonely uncle and auntie just love to spoil these kids we do not love it …..I’m so fed up spending money on Christmas and birthdays and it’s expected of us to buy really good presents …..they think us being child free means it’s so nice for us to spoil these kids …..we couldn’t give a frig about kids …..I have already told my husband I’m done with christenings and weddings my husband will turn 50 in a few years and I can already hear the excuses about not having baby sitters if we throw him a party …..sometimes we need to be selfish and put ourselves first
2026-10-19 16:33:29
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unbothered191983
Gstar42 :
It’s always the same… if you don’t get married or have kids no one cares!
2026-10-19 19:57:32
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cherylduke
Cheryl Duke 🧿🪬💛 :
This🙌🏻 I've lost count of the money I've spent over the years on this and I struggle to get a happy birthday message from some of these folk.
2026-10-19 20:22:22
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samanthabewley
Samantha Bewley :
completely relate to this, I'm 55 now and have never been married and don't have children. Never thought it wouldn't happen for me and it's taken a long time to come to terms with it. People don't really talk about it, I think they assume you're ok with it but in reality it's like grieving 😢
2026-10-25 22:14:55
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lauzj20
Lauz :
I’ve been feeling this a lot lately. I’ve tried to arrange a short trip for next year with my friends. I’ve been clear part of the reason for it is that I won’t have the usual big events. The response has been underwhelming 😔
2026-10-19 18:45:23
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ulitictoc14
Uli :
Have a huge birthday party instead 🥳
2026-10-19 17:59:20
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helenclarex
Helen :
38 and in the same boat x
2026-10-19 17:19:36
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isabellababy____
Isabellababy :
I'm 47 and know where you're coming from but those same people are absolutely miserable after getting those things x
2026-10-21 21:04:29
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hotgal501
hotgal50 :
This is so true.
2026-10-19 17:12:16
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shivclo
daffodils :
At this point I'd rather just have no friends
2026-10-20 19:52:25
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anniiie16
Annie :
I feel the exact same sadly. They don’t turn up for you when you’re single or childless. It’s a tale as old as time 😳
2026-10-20 01:11:31
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aspenrockx
AspenRockx :
Did you approach any men you like?
2026-10-20 00:09:07
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sally.n58
sally n :
we should have a 40 and cleaver enough not to marry party. we don’t need men to have celebrations !! 😏
2026-10-19 16:48:27
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rebekahs.redesign
Rebekah | Healer & Guide :
Absolutely agree with you 💯 - I’m in the same boat at the same age. And it is a grief 🫶🏼x
2026-10-19 18:00:15
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emmaisevolving
emmaisevolving 💕😻🌸 :
Threw myself a huge party this year when I turned 50. I decided I wanted a turn and I was the only one that was gonna make it happen. No regrets, I highly recommend! Celebrate yourselves 🎉
2026-10-19 21:35:47
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laura.pomeroy3
Laura Pomeroy :
This is me x
2026-10-19 17:08:44
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user6365970475266
Bluebird 🦜 :
I feel like relationships and children take away emotional, financial and physical freedom so I’m all good. My only regret is that I didn’t realise this sooner
2026-10-21 09:40:48
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lstya66
Liz :
Very true, I’m 60 and never experienced any celebrations
2026-10-19 20:13:07
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lbcm17
Bass_ca :
Is tough to be single and completely happy if you want a romantic relationship and for some reason it doesn’t happen at all 🥺
2026-10-19 18:20:24
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silkandsatin4
SilkandSatin :
I have accepted that this type of events I may not experience
2026-10-19 17:12:23
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kels.1110
Kels :
As awful as it sounds, I am so over it. They will never understand 😔
2026-10-19 20:15:47
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chicccu
chicccu :
This is why at 34 I’m having a very cute but intimate bday event because I’m thinking wait what if these events don’t happen to me,..
2026-10-19 23:38:53
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