This is the only thing I disagree with, you don’t owe everyone forgiveness.
2026-10-19 19:37:34
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Cloudii :
Ehhh nah I don’t think this is true for everyone. For a lot of bad people, forgiveness is a mercy so that they can feel less guilty and forget the pain they caused as if it never happened. Some people don’t deserve forgiveness, and I feel more peaceful knowing they don’t get that privilege from me. I’m not suffering, nor am I holding crippling resentment. I’ve let go of my pain while also withholding their satisfaction of being free from guilt.
2026-10-19 21:37:52
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Fandex! :
This is exactly what Christianity teaches. Beautiful absolutely beautiful
2026-10-19 19:38:04
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Carmen :
Forgiveness is bullshit. It's made up by bad people to manipulate you
2026-10-19 19:48:23
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El Chonco :
You don't have to forgive them. You just have to Forget why it mattered, why it hurt. Forgive your pain and suffering. And remember them the next time they need something.
Every single person is a retaliator through and through.
2026-10-19 21:45:32
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12Gauge :
Easier said than done guy
2026-10-19 21:39:45
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Apple User279348618 :
You don’t have to forgive anyone. That’s garbage
2026-10-19 20:50:18
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Tone Deaf :
Words for thought. Forgiveness doesn’t mean you have to be in contact.
2026-10-19 20:21:10
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JerryJones2000 :
How can you not take advice from a guy dressed so well?
2026-10-19 20:30:38
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Nana :
Maybe what he explains need a new word. For me, forgiving means that you will be ok with the person and what they did to you. Maybe we need a new word more like acceptance what happend and move on. 😂
2026-10-19 20:51:07
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Gemz :
I think forgiveness is overrated self love i believe in but u don’t need to forgive someone who abused you no move on with your life and heal
2026-10-19 19:11:03
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MikeeRoxx :
Forgive / but that doesn’t mean they have access to you anymore
2026-10-19 21:05:33
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dominique :
I don’t agree! I don’t need to forgive anyone.!! My next phase isn’t being stuck with resentment it’s indifference. I really don’t care at all about this person and that will never change.
2026-10-19 19:53:01
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Ingrid :
i forgave the one who gave birth to me, but that didn't mean i wanted her in my life.
2026-10-19 19:33:26
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🌎 Manager of the Universe 🌏 :
Nah. I dont forgive. Thats Gods job. Im happy, but Im still not forgiven people who did me wrong.
2026-10-19 20:57:56
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nik_the_chik :
You can let it go. And forgive YOURSELF.
2026-10-19 21:05:12
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jawntheohar :
If you want to forgive someone that’s up to you that’s the beautiful part, always thinking you have to forgive people leads you to getting hurt
2026-10-19 20:57:48
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Keren Guy King :
I still don’t like the term forgive in this situation. I accepted that my narcissistic mother didn’t have any parenting from her parents and she couldn’t do more than she did. I just decided to let that go and move on as I as well as a parent have things about me that I cannot change and that prevents me from giving my kids things that they want from me.
2026-10-19 19:48:03
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Diana Elizabeth :
this is one of the most complicated topics to talk about. like, what does even forgive means? if it doesn't mean approval or letting the person in again? I can cut someone off, and don't ever think about them but if you ask me about what they did, I know that is fucked up and I would never let them back in. so maybe forgiving only means emotionally detach from what they did to you, and move on?
2026-10-19 18:53:48
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komobabo :
Forgiveness is for you. It removes that persons power over you. Whether or not you ever talk to that person again.
2026-10-19 20:31:36
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LoonyRuni🇳🇴 :
I disagree with the word being forgiving, it needs its own word.
2026-10-19 19:50:57
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MommaAlchemist :
This lesson was interesting in Avatar the Last Airbender. Aang asked if Katara forgived the man who unalived her mother after she faced him. She said. "I didn't forgive him. I'll never forgive him." She accepted that. But Zuko? Who made amends? She forgave him. Zuko made rhe effort. The guy who harmed her tried to get his mother harmed in exchange for his own safety. Katara found closure.
2026-10-19 19:31:42
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lanama :
this pushing for forgiveness is a Christian concept. psychologically it doesn't actually help you.
2026-10-19 21:09:20
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Xiongmao :
Forgiving is weakness
2026-10-19 21:39:05
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Molly McLaughlin :
I don’t know how to forgive and nobody can explain how to do it!
2026-10-19 19:59:44
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