@vibe_samurai: You supported three separate DJ careers. Now you need one phone call, and suddenly you’re disturbing their peace. 😂 When does protecting your peace become making someone else do all the work? If you’re sorting through a friendship, a relationship, or your next move, book a Private Clarity Call with me. Link in bio. For more of me, follow Vibe Sesh, my podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, and subscribe on YouTube. Search “Vibe Sesh.” #Friendship #ProtectingMyPeace #Boundaries #Loneliness #HumanConnection
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Monday 19 October 2026 20:34:39 GMT
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Morgentau :
respecting boundaries is also an important part of friendship 🫶🏽
2026-10-19 22:08:54
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BB :
The problem is that when you act generously, you are the only one, because it's not the norm anymore. I got screwed one too many times by people I made sacrifices for, and I would rather spend the rest of my life alone now.
2026-10-19 23:47:59
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jaycee :
man this was an amazing monologue
2026-10-23 20:25:17
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jinslayer2043 :
Its fibromyalgea related fascia fatigue for some of us
2026-10-23 01:32:52
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Odera :
Way to make me feel bad for skipping my friends birthday dinner because of my social battery
2026-10-20 02:02:15
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michelsauve :
Tik Tok keeps presenting me people who articulate ideas that are on the edges of my radar, not fully fleshed out, yet seeping into my thoughts, affecting my actions, sometimes even without words. Thank you for articulating this so clearly. I will pay attention to this. It also reminds me to mine those thoughts at the edge of my awareness: there might be some interesting stuff there…🙏
2026-10-20 12:17:11
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life, legally blind :
Sending the bill to someone else is the perfect way to put it. Being there for so many people and no one being there when my dad died or my mom nearly died open my eyes. Cutting them off was the best thing I did.
2026-10-23 13:16:57
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meana_the_moose :
The concept of sacrifice is dead. Everything has to be transactional.
2026-10-19 21:46:48
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DropStill :
💯 Look for people who reciprocate! I don’t necessarily dispose of people who don’t show up for me but I stop going the extra mile for them. Some “friends” are just fair weather company
2026-10-22 14:14:22
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Busty Rucket :
After watching many people react to Lord of the Rings, I noticed many people comment "Everyone needs a friend like Sam". Sounds nice but why is it up to someone else to be a good friend? Everyone should strive to BE like Sam.
2026-10-20 06:00:43
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JJ :
This is how therapists should be able to talk to clients
2026-10-23 11:18:27
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Everyone to be in a village. No one want to be a villager!
2026-10-20 11:39:29
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William 2.0 :
I wouldn’t skip my friend’s birthday party
2026-10-19 23:23:06
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Joel Kaçan 🇹🇷 :
What a video dude. I love seeing that I’m not the only one that studied Zygmunt Bauman and Hyan Byol 😭🙏🏼
2026-10-20 02:29:56
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SR :
I have to listen this over and over again
2026-10-22 04:43:12
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•superposition• :
i was the first to arrive at a funeral when the mother of an old friend from highschool passed. we hadnt spoken en years but i couldnt bear not giving her a hug and telling her how sorry i was for her loss :( i’ll never regret acting like a villager even when its not returned
2026-10-20 20:09:16
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Sarah_bOo :
Time definitely reveals who shows up and who doesn’t. I had to walk away after 20 years of holding up the friendship.
2026-10-19 23:37:43
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NotYourMomma :
I'm the youngest of four girls our parents are gone they all had kids, and since I was the youngest I was the built-in babysitter I have many nieces and nephews, none of them call me or check in me. I've become the old cat lady working from home in isolation for the last 6 years one thing has taught me through a lot of agonizing pain and isolation you have to come first and if those people don't show up for you don't look back just go forward.
2026-10-19 22:02:31
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Healthish.21 :
after many years of being inconditional and there for everybody, but them not being for me, I honestly feel tired and sad. my things, good or bad, are not as good as theirs and they seem to think that i dont need them being for me, just taking from me.
2026-10-22 00:36:26
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Florance :
well damn
2026-10-20 00:36:02
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Babsy :
There comes a time when we/me, really don't want to see the truth. l cared, l cared. l showed up to their saddest/happiest days and even a funeral here and there. Then l discovered hard way, the friends were only there for good times. l didn't go to any more funerals anymore because they didn't come for mine. Who needs friends like that? Fake! Then l had to protect my peace and have no further trust. l am much happier now.
2026-10-20 11:37:53
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discoveryshop :
Thank you for putting words to this phenomenon and getting the message out there. As someone who has pushed through a dead battery a thousand times, it can be done!
2026-10-22 13:12:36
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Ignacio Villaseñor S :
This made me think of my relationships, friends and family
2026-10-22 00:58:45
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KelMamaLady :
💯Boundaries have become another way to excuse selfishness & laziness, humans always take a good concept and misapply it
2026-10-21 10:50:04
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S@m♍ :
splendid explanation..makes whole lot of sense 👏
2026-10-20 18:11:42
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