@maciemincey: I was raised by a single mom who, at the time, probably felt like her only options were to scare us straight or spank us into acting right. Now that I’m a mother, I’ve made a conscious decision to parent differently. Not without discipline, but with a whole lot more communication. I’m a firm, respectful parent. I believe in getting down on eye level and having conversations, whether they’re good or bad. I believe in apologizing to our children when we’re wrong, setting clear boundaries, and following through with consequences when those boundaries are crossed. I want my children to respect me because they trust me, not because they’re afraid of me. Gentle parenting with a backbone. 🫶 That’s the household. #momsbelike #parentingtips #toddlersbelike #strictparents #mydaughter
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Tuesday 20 October 2026 02:00:56 GMT
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DANISHA CARTER :
“stop making those noises immediately” 😭
2026-10-20 18:12:23
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Lauren Hix :
You use to talk to me this same way when I had one too many Long Island Ice Teas 🥹
2026-10-20 02:53:29
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Hannah :
There are 4 main parenting styles & girl this is authoritative parenting!! You are so firm yet loving 💖😭 I love thisss! Children need boundaries.
2026-10-20 02:41:50
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Sabine :
The dog breathing the whole time
2026-10-20 03:57:19
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Veronica :
Yes! THIS is gentle parenting
2026-10-20 02:12:28
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💋 :
i can’t stand the noise EITHER
2026-10-20 23:30:12
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Amy baby :
I swear, being a girl mom is not for the weak !!
2026-10-20 02:16:22
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Ashley Benson :
Amazing parenting. Exactly what we should do
2026-10-20 04:07:14
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Sarah Villanueva :
This is exactly how I parent so I’m glad to see I’m not being too strict but then I feel such mom guilt that I’m not letting her express her emotions or being her safe space to have a tantrum. How do you find balance?
2026-10-20 02:30:49
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Gabi♡ྀི :
I’m a grown adult but even I got a lil nervous from over here when you said “stop making those noises, grab your makeup let’s go” 😭
2026-10-20 03:13:11
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leannp_z :
Great mama!! Also, I died when baby girl was making the noises and tik tok translated it as Korean. (I am Korean). 💀💀💀
2026-10-20 18:08:36
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Azaleas Bonnets :
She got a walking little attitude lol
2026-10-20 02:30:27
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pichi :
my mom would be like “im gonna count till three and i’m already at two” GOLD
2026-10-20 23:20:47
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natterfly371 :
How my ass wanted to run when you started counting
2026-10-20 06:04:51
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Brittney :
Period! The “bye” gets the boys every time too
2026-10-20 04:48:33
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Lauren Klayman :
🥰 Sometimes this hurts our heart’s more than it does the child. you are doing her a favor, children need boundaries . 💕
2026-10-20 02:20:03
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Makira :
I can tell you are exhausted and you handled this so well! Good job mama
2026-10-20 03:52:26
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Kurt Smokain 🍃 :
Finally a parent on TikTok who doesn’t make me want to rip my hair out.
2026-10-21 13:59:06
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SairahKristina :
Yelling and demanding obedience ("Say okay mama") rather than helping the child regulate big feelings model unhealthy communication.
2026-10-20 11:05:32
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LC :
no i know this is serious but the “grab your makeup and let’s go!” took me out. 😅
2026-10-20 09:34:32
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elliedegrand_ :
This is great! Only thing is when you say “okay?” It gives them a chance to say no and it’s hard to go from there 😅 it’s like you’re asking them for permission
2026-10-20 04:40:04
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SAINT :
Amazing, you’re a great mother 👏🏽👏🏽
2026-10-20 02:08:46
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𝚔 𝚊 𝚝 𝚒 𝚎 :
Lmao this is exactly how I parent too. By the end of it I’m like LETS GOOOOOOO
2026-10-20 17:44:16
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Stephy Perkins :
I recently read something that said if you threaten to take something away because the are not responding the way you want them to. It’s manipulation 🫠🥴 . So I guess we need to explain we don’t respond with whining you will have a consequence
2026-10-20 04:31:48
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Maame✨ :
This is precisely gentle parenting! And it is effective. You’re communicating clearly and effectively. You’re showing that there are consequences when you don’t listen. You offered to help her with her makeup. You can show frustration towards the situation and feel disappointed that she isn’t listening. Offering to help her tells her that you obviously still love and care for her and that your intentions aren’t to be mean. So healthy! ♥️
2026-10-20 03:38:48
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