🌿 Growth Over Cycles 🌿
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Dale Lambert :
im not try to chang anyone only stays if they chose
2026-10-20 11:48:25
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Pamela :
There can be a lot of gray area between “Always” & “Never” , here’s what I mean—a person who has been victim to any form of extreme traumatizing psychological & emotional abuse; whether through DV, childhood trauma, prolonged group cruelty & adult bullying, or a combination of all - may very well repeatedly attest that they are a good person of good character. I’ve personally endured all of the above & when I fell victim to a smear campaign & adult mobbing of cruel insidious psychological abuse & terrorism- what I struggled to grasp more - even as an intelligent woman: was that level of psychological barbarianism, how a human being or in this case many could ban together to commit such cruel acts against another. I did spend a lot of time trying to understand it, to grasp why, how, what kind of person could & saying that “I am a good person, I have never in my life nor could I do anything like this to anyone- ever, & that I never did anything to deserve to be treated so horribly “. The truth is; my greatest struggle was more in trying to understand the depth of cruelty & how people could be insidious, than in much of their demeaning comments because I know who I am, my character & my worth. I sadly, kept wanting to surface or find some good in these people. The irony, I was showing compassion to those who victimized me-hope in their humanity- wanting to believe in some goodness within them as human beings! Trying to prove my worth & character to those who treated me as though I was worthless. I don’t know if it is because I am a neurodivergent & sensitive or because of the extreme abuse - but I did seek to convince others of my worth & exceptional character as a good person because I know I didn’t deserve to be treated so horribly & that I’m a good, compassionate beautiful person. I do agree that a person’s character shines through in the way they live & the impact they have made in the lives of others, as does mine. No I don’t have to prove my character it shines through in how I live & in every person that I’ve been a blessing to & had a meaningful impact on. I threw my pearls in their troth to be trampled, while hoping to find good; yet, I was & am the good.
2026-10-20 15:52:00
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