@adamavitable: Men would rather blame women for glowing up after escaping toxic situations than look at the other men causing the problem in the first place. Why do you want women to stay in bad relationships? #andthisisbacon #relationshipadvice #adviceformen #GlowUp

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_annieurban
Annie Urban :
I gained weight so he would stop touching me. 🤡
2026-10-20 08:49:09
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susan170173
Susan1701 :
She had to have time to work out and money to buy healthy foods too. Men take a ton of time, energy, and the cost and quantity of food is more than double. On top of everything you said.
2026-10-20 05:58:04
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xolocrewgermany
Xolo Crew Germany :
They. Don't. Get. It.
2026-10-20 07:43:26
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littlestarinc
Hiraeth Ad Astra ✨ :
Self reflection is so alien to some men.
2026-10-20 05:16:21
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vanessa.depre
Vanessa Depre :
I have sworn off men. And everyday I am reminded I made the right decision.
2026-10-20 06:37:28
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olgamryga
olgamryga :
and he sounds like "being depressed" is a choice... dude!....
2026-10-20 05:55:52
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silmor1971
Sil Maquinalez :
Haha he doesn’t understand that losing toxic man equals to losing self hate and frees her up to be who she was …
2026-10-20 05:15:10
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kelly.tan425
Kelly Tan :
how does one looses weight, when they devote all their time to caring for the other person?
2026-10-20 07:08:35
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bellabrutalicious
Bee😸Shae :
tbf i gained weight single. why? bc i felt okay to not press myself to the brink. I had a drinking problem. I had ED that would come and id fight it to go. gaining weight has been me finally checking out of that obsession of being perfect for someone else. im not saying being fat makes me feel good. but I feel better knowing im not stressing to be impressive. bc idc about a mans view on me.
2026-10-20 19:53:00
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belladonna.dreams
Belladonna Candy :
she looks happy in the after part.
2026-10-20 05:50:49
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allison.ross2005
Allison Ross 🍁 :
What your partner looks like is a directly coordinated with how you treat them
2026-10-20 12:46:37
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sapphicredhead94
Bookishsapphic🍉📚🏳️‍🌈🔻 :
When you are mentally unhappy or under stress. You stop caring about your overall physical health. Toxic environments breed toxic emotions. Once you find escape from it. Your body can heal as it needs. I’m glad she finally started hers 💖
2026-10-20 19:01:29
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devyn_jade_05
Devyn :
she lost however much that man weighted on top of the weight she lost for herself. not only is her body in better shape but her life too. this is all coming from a woman who is losing weight for her loving husband because we both deserve better
2026-10-20 04:54:49
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bikerepairbear
KerryManyLetters🇨🇦🏳️‍🌈 :
The reward for being a “good wife” is an autoimmune disease. I’m 6 years gone and waiting to discuss fibromyalgia with my doctor.
2026-10-20 19:26:20
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bataco.mierla
Bataco Mierla :
😂😂😂 he thinks the weight is from not caring about our partners and our relationships when it’s actually from over compensation and hyper functioning in relationships where the other person barely functions.
2026-10-20 06:55:37
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jammydodgersandtea
HJ24 :
Maybe leaving the relationship puts a woman in a better place… 🤔
2026-10-20 07:40:27
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newnametimeagain
new name :
I wonder if he ever figured out the common denominator.
2026-10-20 14:07:40
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thaliewitch
Nathalie 🇨🇦 :
He tore through my self esteem and slowly I changed.
2026-10-20 05:37:17
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goddesskiyomi.888
清美(きよみ)888 :
They will never understand that women's mental health is connected to our hormones.
2026-10-20 07:54:23
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chickengibbens
Chickengiblets :
I literally could not go to the gym when I was with my ex. a combination of not having time, and him being jealous or suspicious every time I did. he would also demand I eat when he got home from work and because that often meant waiting long hours I would snack while I was waiting. fuck yeah I lost weight when I got rid of him. healthiest decision I ever made on every possible level.
2026-10-20 06:53:07
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nova48367
Nova :
Huh.. So thats why ive lost weight after my mom left
2026-10-20 06:26:57
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ladyled71
Ladyled71 :
They beat you down until you are on the brink of death. Then, when the abuser is gone, we can relax and GLOW UP!!!
2026-10-20 06:23:14
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mynameisnotmaryjane
beth :
I love the new colors!
2026-10-20 04:51:30
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progamergirlxd
progamergirlxd :
I hate it when men have standards they would not keep up themselves
2026-10-20 12:35:38
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beameangirl
you can't sit with us :
There is no time to stay in shape when you have kids, including your partner- additional kid, to take care of. I stay in shape because my partner makes sure I have time for myself every day (and that time is not for “staying in shape” I could be eating doughnuts and binge-watching shows, for all my partner cares). I do it for ME.
2026-10-20 07:21:43
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