@angelmelendez123:

tobaktu_running_water :

getting relationship advice from tiktok is crazy

Ꮤ⃝tea❀⋆.ೃ࿔ :

or sometimes, the healthy partner will leave if they know they can’t change and staying would only hurt more

Shahnoza :

And you know what? Whenever I said that this person's actions hurt me or made me uncomfortable, they made me feel like I was the one in the wrong, like I was the one who needed to change. But how am I supposed to change? By simply putting up with things that hurt me?

Elinorie :

give him this when i break up with him

user5582475890303 :

Good, ol John DeNofa

𝓡𝓸𝓼𝓪 𝓯𝓪𝓻𝓪𝓷🪖 :

My reaction is always the problem

Olgalunx :

I need advice. I recently found out my bf was watching corn the entire relationship even tho I told him at the beginning that I’m against it and I don’t want him to do that bc that shit hurts me and makes me doubt on myself. Well I found out he still did it without me knowing it and when I asked him his response was: “Because it’s normal. Everyone does it, stop overreacting and I won’t stop doing that.”(I asked him: “even tho it hurts me?” Do you want me to get hurt?”) “No, but you have to accept it because it’s NORMAL.” (And if id ask you to stop doing that for me? It huts me.”) “No, accept it, it’s normal everyone does that.” (Then I wanted to know why exactly he does that to understand, like am I not attractive enough?”) He said that he just needs to do that when he’s horny and he sometimes even searches up like for 6 hours to get the right video it’s just different and even when I asked him if it would help if he had me in those pics and else he said he needs something new everytime he does that and other stuff (I was in shock.) He also said that he sometimes does it like as a hobby bc he likes to be horny. (WTF!!! im speachless) Now I can’t stop thinking about if he does it and I feel so disgusting and stupid.. Guys is corn really that normal bc wtf how can you watch other woman and lust on them when you have a loving gf bc your side I just don’t get it. I could never it just feels like cheating for me.

Passions for Art :

I pray that I find my way out of my hell

brokecash :

what if he cheated and promised to change?

zawir :

totally agree

Diane :

I just stop talking. Best solution. My words and actions aren’t working.

Landon Ohs :

It was never we have stuff to work on, it was always what she wants, it was always my fault and she put that image in my mind that I was constantly the problem, never wanted to talk it through in person, only on texts, I don’t know what to do, I know I messed up but that was because she was never emotionally available for me and it changed me

Fhhcho :

He is so bad and I still want him

banananabusinesz :

He kept trying to change but couldnt and in the end he said you were always enough but i need to fix myself

Asträ ⛧ :

I agree 💯

jm :

i hope youre happy now

「★ 𝐊𝐚𝐢𝐳𝐞𝐧 ★」 :

Exactly what he did omds 💔

Gabbb🕳 :

yeah is not like this, what if the fact that i have childhood female friends hurt you? i have to just give up a 15 y o friendship just bc u are insecure? i don’t think so. Or maybe if i hang out with my friend group end u don’t like that i spend time with them end not with you? Nobody have to change themselves to please you. If you don’t like something you talk, explain end find a way out, you don’t make the other person change is life for you.

Tj :

This is happening to me . I’m done

meow :

silent repost

💫 :

We both need to work on things but when he doesn’t try it makes it harder for me to so then I go back to the same things

dionnapresley :

he literally told me I was being manipulative for telling him that I didn't like him being on his phone while he was driving. I was in the car with him while he did it by the way when I was telling him this

8hecate :

So true

mimi :

aozem.0 :