@oldmanwisdom_: You’re out on a date with a guy. You’ve had a lovely evening, everything’s going well, and then the bill arrives. He looks at you and says, “We’re splitting this 50/50, right?” Now, I’m curious how women would actually respond to this. Would you be perfectly happy splitting the bill? Would you expect him to pay? Or would the fact that he’s just assumed you’re going halves put you off him completely? I’m not asking who’s right or wrong here. I’m asking what YOU would actually say to him. Ladies, the bill’s on the table. What’s your response? #dating #datingadvice #relationships #firstdate #redflags

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salazarjacq
Jackie :
I'll pay my share but there's no second time around...
2026-10-20 07:52:08
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teeboocuverse
Teeboocu Studio :
I’d pay for the whole bill and up and leave without a word
2026-10-20 08:43:05
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haetera
Emma 🇬🇧 :
I'd split the bill and never see the guy again. easy!
2026-10-20 08:50:48
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shirleyboo_
shirleyboo_ :
I would pay my share… there’s not a chance in hell I’m gonna allow someone to think I owe them something in return
2026-10-20 09:34:02
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r_bud
Rosebud :
I’d say I got it princess, pay it and never see him again
2026-10-21 15:24:25
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joy004730
Joy :
This is like asking a man over to your place for a homade dinner, then after he eats present him with a bill for half the groceries and wages you charged for the time it took to plan and prepare the dinner
2026-10-20 11:31:15
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justpassingthrough44
JustPassingThrough 🍁 :
I always insist to pay my part on the first dates. Why would the guy have to pay when he doesn’t even know me?? If we end up together then he can spoil me.
2026-10-21 12:08:43
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caren.paskel
Caren Paskel 🦋 :
It happened to me and I was so shocked. I just looked at him and said I don’t have any money with me. And then I never spoke to him again after that.
2026-11-01 16:26:46
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linda4877
linda4877 :
Nah ! I would just pay for my own ..
2026-11-01 00:00:38
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nurseallieb0
nurseallieb0 :
No, you invited me so I expected you to pay.
2026-11-01 15:11:21
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emrose_85
Emma Rose 💫 :
I would totally agree with 50/50
2026-10-31 23:53:52
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nanna.k53
Nanna K :
Put down my share and walk😳
2026-11-01 00:36:02
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pat.green66
Pat Green :
i would pay half
2026-11-01 12:58:13
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pamelaalyssa808
Pamela Alyssa 808 :
I will pay my share. Leave, block that man and never see him again for the rest of my life.
2026-10-30 13:59:14
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sezzytoks
Sezzytokz :
Do so and understand he is not wanting a 2nd
2026-10-22 10:35:01
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sarahjane985
sara🇮🇪 :
Paying my own and leaving on my own.
2026-10-22 16:06:47
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catherinecarney5
Catherine Carney :
Am I odd but I’m happy to pay my way.
2026-10-22 15:54:25
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karmacb2u
user4821971640072 :
i went o date, went to pay, he stood back i paid, no 2nd date tho!
2026-10-22 12:46:25
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user948147465
Tania :
I would pay mine and never see him again.
2026-10-20 09:05:22
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scarletfaydra
Faydra 🇨🇦 :
I just get up and leave and never speak to him again. If we need to do 50-50, it needs to be discussed beforehand not when the bill comes.
2026-10-20 14:42:14
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freespirit00001
Free spirit 00001 :
Have the conversation before… if you’re invited as a guest and someone else chooses the venue, menu and price range…. Their tab to pick up
2026-10-20 07:29:26
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maryanagnostopoul1
Mary Anagnostopoulos :
Oh I’d pay and block him
2026-10-21 12:14:13
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dotherightthing33
Dotherightthing :
If he invites me, he should pay. If I invite him, I would pay. It’s that simple.
2026-10-22 12:59:17
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lucy.campasano
Lucy Campasano :
I’d just leave.
2026-10-22 15:42:33
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stormfirewitch1
Stormfirewitch🇨🇦 :
I always pay my half for dates one because then there's no expectation, two because then there's no obligation between anybody to have to pay. if we are dating and you offer to take me out and don't pay then that's different. but if we're just going out on a date I don't care.
2026-10-23 16:10:14
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