Demi
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The Baby Foster Sharer :
“Small things” a padlock on a door?!?!? No. Thats a big thing. This is neglect and abuse.
2026-10-20 09:00:01
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𝐈𝐛𝐞𝐧 :
Honey, this is not oversharing. This might just reach the right kid, in the same situation! ❤️🔥
2026-10-20 08:57:52
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J :
But like why? What could possibly justify this in their heads? I just don't understand
2026-10-20 08:25:50
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elisabethUK🇬🇧 :
If anyone finds themselves in this position please make use of a public library if you can. We are used to people visiting frequently to sit and read, use the free computers and WiFi. There's often a jigsaw puzzle and colouring, etc. If you would like help we can signpost you to council services and or homeless organisations. If you need immediate help we can follow safe guarding procedures as well.
2026-10-20 14:17:32
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gigikairouass :
A boy in my son’s school was going through the same thing so I took him and kept him for two months. Contacted the social services and he was taken into foster care. Thankfully a really lovely single woman. He’s now at university studying Law. He still calls me mum. Some people don’t deserve children
2026-10-20 10:17:02
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Sophie Hollywood 💫 :
That is most certainly abuse, I’m so sorry
2026-10-20 08:24:22
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AntoB_91 :
I was crying yesterday I had been rejected by another employer despite me feeling that I've done great. Now, I feel bad because it's stupid thing to feel sad about compared to what true rejection looks like
2026-10-23 07:09:43
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vivibivito :
As a mom, it's unfathomable to treat your child like that. You did not deserve that, you are beautiful and worthy and brave to share this.
2026-10-20 09:56:14
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Elena Greco :
There’s nothing small about a padlock on the door!!!
2026-10-20 08:33:57
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Blackbird Studios 🇨🇦 :
That’s horrible, I’m so sorry you were treated this way 🖤
2026-10-23 00:07:23
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In narcissistic families, children can be assigned different roles: the scapegoat, who gets blamed and excluded; the golden child, who can do no wrong; the lost child, who keeps their head down and tries not to be noticed; and the mascot, who uses humour to keep everyone happy. Not every family has all these roles, and they can change over time. In my own family, I was the golden child, my oldest stepsibling was the scapegoat and my middle sibling was the lost child. When I got older and started standing up to my mum because I got so sick of how my older sibling was treated by their stepmum (my mum) , I became a scapegoat too, and my middle sibling became the golden child. The roles serve the family dynamic, and the unspoken rules are don’t challenge the parent, don’t talk about what’s happening, don’t rock the boat and don’t risk becoming the next target. Siblings may stay silent or go along with things because they’re afraid of losing their own position. Or as in my family they could also be violence. When you’re repeatedly treated as though you don’t belong, it’s hardly surprising you might grow up believing you’re unlikeable or unlovable. You spend years trying to fix yourself when the problem was never you. Demi talks about being “locked out“ literally, but narcissist can do this to you mentally as well. Refusing to speak to you for extended periods of time over a perceived offence. When that happened to me I would lose access to my other parent so I learn to try my best to keep the peace and use the grey rock method which really is the only way to bore a narcissist into targeting you less.
2026-10-21 23:48:59
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Jessica :
Girl your story unlocked some hidden memories. And I'm so sorry for you (and me as well) cuz same. Today I started with the book Complex ptsd from Pete Walker and it helped so much already with understanding what emotional flashbacks are and how to deal with them.
2026-10-22 11:27:16
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Keaffe-567883 :
I’m so sorry. You seem like a wonderful person ❤️
2026-10-22 20:00:17
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yaz :
That is insane abuse. I hope u have gone non contact with them
2026-10-20 08:53:19
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Cal❤️🔥 :
This is fucking awful 😢
2026-10-20 14:23:31
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Bethkatelyn :
I am so sorry this happened. No one should have to earn their way back in - wishing you peace and healing 🤍
2026-10-20 07:45:59
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Xenia :
The fact that you refer to a padlock in your living/ safe space as "small" speaks volumes on the overall abuse. I'm so very sorry you weren't loved the way you deserve, very proud of you for getting to this point in your life!
2026-10-20 08:43:11
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syrahj88 :
No child should ever go through this! I’m sorry you were let down and neglected by them.
2026-10-20 08:06:17
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Jo Walton785 :
Sounds like a toxic narcissistic household and you where the scapegoat
2026-10-20 09:00:07
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its abuse
2026-10-20 13:00:00
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studiokiwi.co :
People laugh at my fear of snails but they don’t know it’s because my dad would lock me outside overnight while my mum worked nights at the hospital, I was 5 and woke up curled up by the back door surrounded by snails. You’re not alone bud, I’m sorry the people that are meant to love you failed you, I hope you know it wasn’t your fault ❤️
2026-10-20 09:39:02
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Chloe May :
My dad would make me eat dinner on the stairs, he said I ate like a camel. No matter how much I focused on my eating he would still shout at me and make me eat on the stairs. I was constantly grounded and being accused of things I hadn’t done and missed out while my sisters all had fun. I would walk up the stairs with my back against the wall as I was scared of being hit. I would be sworn at snd screamed at and mocked I felt so uncomfortable and insecure. 36 now and I still have very low self esteem and no confidence. Thank you for sharing 💗
2026-10-20 15:36:03
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freddy freakbear :
Why on earth would people like that decide to be parents?! You were utterly failed I'm so sorry :(
2026-10-20 14:48:32
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n0rd85 :
im sorry A PADLOCK ?? No food?? what the hell
2026-10-20 09:10:36
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Natalie O'Neill :
I’m so sorry this happened to you, you didn’t deserve that. Also, the wreath is gorgeous
2026-10-20 21:31:14
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