LlamaCita :
Went through similar with my parents when I got diagnosed. My dad’s side is full of ADHDers, my mom is definitely autistic (as were her parents) but refuses to see it. As a result, she wasn’t the most supportive growing up and I needed it because there was a lot of trauma. But this past weekend, there was a full circle moment. I watched my cousin, who spent 18 years in prison, marry the most incredible woman and mother. I was so nervous going, and I ended up surrounded by people I barely see because I’ve been estranged from my dad’s side for years (my dad was abusive). But I was just *me*, and I had my husband and sister by my side. I realized that my “home” is wherever they are. I also learned that all of my cousins on my dad’s side genuinely care about me and look out for me, which was incredibly healing. Honestly, your interpretation of the cosmos gave me a lot of confidence going into this past weekend. Sure, my emotions ebb and flow lol, but I’ve learned to be in a more… ~liquid~ state, and it’s been incredibly helpful. So, thank you 💟
2026-10-20 14:57:07