@therapyjeff: Stitch with @Kathy & Dan Brigham "Don't be friends with the opposite sex" is purity culture. #therapy #MentalHealth #relationshiptips #purityculture

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piezenpie
PieZen :
As a bisexual person I‘m not gonna talk to anyone apparently.
2026-10-20 13:02:19
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raeyeth
raeyeth :
not having platonic friends is a red flag
2026-10-20 14:54:45
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dadditude7
Dadditude :
why on earth would i want to have coffee with my friends wife if only new her through my friend, what possibly would be the reason????
2026-10-20 20:15:59
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stjames222
Milk :
It’s like they don’t trust themselves???
2026-10-20 13:07:24
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sivad201
sivad20 :
I see attractive people ALL THE TIME and am perfectly capable of not sleeping with them.
2026-10-20 14:24:23
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ikarlssons
Ida Karlsson :
Many of the “boundaries” people set today are rooted more in insecurity and a need for control than in healthy boundary-setting. Restricting your partner to avoid confronting your own insecurities doesn’t make it healthy just because you choose to call it a boundary. That’s all.
2026-10-20 13:01:21
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annipohto
Anni Pohto 🌅 🇪🇺🇫🇮🇬🇧 :
One of the greenest flags of my now husband was that he had close female friends. Also I’d never date anyone who would tell me to stop being in touch with my male friends. We are humans first.
2026-10-20 13:02:00
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dgsusjan
ehshssuj :
healthy relationships are whatever the couple wants
2026-10-20 19:38:39
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seanna9010
seanna9010 :
If someone wants to cheat, they’re gonna cheat. I’d rather it be easier so I know sooner than later
2026-10-20 16:00:40
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staycombobulated
MoonJoy :
I keep this around for good reason
2026-10-20 15:29:17
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haloumi13
haloumi13 :
May this love never find me. I’m not having any guy friends and i expect the same from my husband. I’m not emotionally opening up to anyone who aint my man. Too many risks. Obviously doctors and coworkers are different
2026-10-20 15:33:51
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madamemollys
Madame Molly :
Well.... I'm not a part of purity culture and have watched several of my partners have opposite sex friends that evolved into emotional or physical infidelity. So, I'm a little jaded about the whole friends thing.
2026-10-21 00:27:14
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kalishka10
Saz :
As a bi lady this opinion has always blown my mind 🤣 so I just shouldn’t be friends with anybody because I “might be tempted by them”???!!! My guy, I have potentially the whole world of humans to choose from and I have been attracted to SO VERY FEW OF THEM because of shit like this 🤣
2026-10-21 18:06:20
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wh0smireiu
mire? :
i hate when people say men and women cant be just friends. like are you telling me humans were meant to be separated by men and women? that i cant have a male friend unless i marry him and have his kids? and i can only have that guy as my one guy friend?!!
2026-10-20 12:58:22
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edmunddantes691
user6684167097683 :
Having a dentist or coworker of the opposite sex is not the same thing as having an ongoing texting relationship or getting coffee with that person.
2026-10-20 15:04:59
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cherry209247
Cherry :
My husband’s best female friends are now my best friends. They were my bridesmaids at our wedding! What a blessing that is ♥️
2026-10-20 15:43:47
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chewieartist7
ChewieArtist :
having multiple gender friends my whole life has been necessary for my mental health.
2026-10-20 13:59:48
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unlikelypossibility
UnlikelyPossibility :
My common sense view: having friends is important and healthy. Crossing out half the population immediately is a bad start to that.
2026-10-20 20:45:10
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whitewolfy90
Tiberius :
incorrect bro.
2026-10-20 20:21:06
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frommuffinwithlove
Muffin :
Why do you need to get coffee with your fiends wife.. without your friend or your own wife there…. Yeah sure ok 🚩🚩🚩🚩
2026-10-30 15:48:26
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zareldo
Zareldo :
nothing wrong with having friends of the other gender, but why tf would you hang out with your friends wife 1 on 1?
2026-10-21 16:48:17
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a.sweet.token
✎෴𝑽𝒊𝒕𝒂𝒏𝒊 ᯓ𖤐 :
I'm completely okay with my boyfriend having female friends, but I want to meet them and get to know them. Not always butting in on their relationship or conversations type of thing but I want to at least meet her and see how I feel about her.
2026-10-21 09:35:26
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ghost_in_the_stars
Urei Yūrei :
We need a whole class in K-12 for boys about self control and accountability
2026-10-20 16:45:07
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pchpd
pchpd :
That's why I don't trust people who say that they can't be friends with the opposite sex: Because they don't trust themselves.
2026-10-21 09:09:51
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tonebjell
Tone Bjellerås :
So by that logic me and my wife cant have friends at all?? we are attacted to women, so no female friends. And no male friends because they may want us..😅
2026-10-21 07:48:27
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