@rageosita: some even go as far as not wanting to join the process of building a life together, they want it all already prepared for them on arrival, then turn around to ask why they don’t feel needed or valued. #fyp #foryou #fypシ
Let’s even leave material things aside, some don’t even have the personality they are looking for in someone else. You want someone that’s caring, but you care less. You want someone that’s honest and sincere but you’re a very strategic and selfish person. The list goes on.. if there’s something I’ve come to accept, it’s, don’t ask or expect what you can’t give. If you feel you deserve something, be able to give it too, it’ll help you avoid people that doesn’t fit into your life. And yes, this applies to both material things too.
2026-10-20 16:38:22
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Allure🌸 :
some men after building a life together,dem go still leave u follow someone else
I recommend make everyone go build ,both men and women
2026-10-20 19:07:37
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Fortune Ifunanya🌺😻 :
Beauty with brains
Thank you, my guy
2026-10-28 11:20:35
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preshlove :
But what if after doing all this and he ends up not valuing you
2026-10-27 16:21:51
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AMAZINGCHELLY3 :
chill bro most of us don't have any partners
2026-10-27 21:56:51
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Omanwa🥰♥️ :
True👍 relationship is actually two persons effort put together to make "it" work not leaving it for one person alone and that's actually the problem some of my gender don't understand...
2026-10-20 13:19:34
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Adannaya❣️ :
I’m intentionally learning this. It’s so easy to expect what you as a person doesn’t have.
2026-10-27 06:46:28
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by.eniye :
Point taken: what you want in a partner should reflect on you first before seeking it from another!!! 💯
2026-10-26 20:28:40
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itskingcole :
tell them brooo,they're so emotionally unavailable, you tell them what make you angry they get angry at you because you gor angry at them,manipulation!!!!!
2026-10-20 15:33:52
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Dany_Bby🌹💎 :
Told someone this and they called me a 'Pick-me' ....lmao
2026-10-20 15:43:21
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meemah :
this man makes me happy despite the distance. im not even talking material things. you know how someone has value that absolutely has nothing to to with money. i told him I'd will spoil him once i make plenty money and this was his reply... see ehn i always say it money is bonus the concious efforts from both parties to choose each other everyday is what matters most
2026-10-21 06:47:16
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MsBeibe⭐ :
I've been learn so much from your page, nice one sir
2026-10-27 05:40:44
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Wakawaka lawyer👩💼⚖️ :
Ahh see as everybody is saying “them” in the comments, as though y’all don’t do it.
2026-10-20 18:38:37
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Chelsea♌🌸🎀 :
yes and am expecting a rich partner nothing go still sup. no be one random guy on tiktok go tell me wetin I go use my life do
2026-10-21 13:41:19
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Girlytech || Web Developer ❤️ :
Some men want women that can take their bullshits without complaining and when they complain they are seen as sensitive
2026-10-21 15:56:09
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Dher..byy :
Men fall on this table too sha! Unrealistic expectations
2026-10-20 21:03:34
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Stephanie micheal :
I’m done advising em o told someone this but I ended up being called a “pick me” being freaked by “bare minimum “. Wo! In years to come everyone would know what they’ve done to themselves
2026-10-20 19:00:12
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Wakawaka lawyer👩💼⚖️ :
No be lie sha… Even me dey guilty. I want a man that cooks effortlessly but I can’t cook without burning or cutting my hands. I don’t like chores too.😭
2026-10-20 18:40:54
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_marvellous :
Some don’t even know what their partner does…
2026-10-20 18:49:12
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shopbyruka.ng :
The moment I understood that life got no manual it shift your mindset, whether you are there yet or not you know what you want in life, don’t appear desperate and hungry that’s in the case of money. Secondly have value in character, have boundaries see men don’t respect you cos of what you have they respect you how you respect yourself
2026-10-21 04:07:48
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_paracleta01 :
Is it just me or I love seeing him pop up on my screen 🤭
2026-10-24 17:15:24
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Queeng Rae :
Real life nor be African magic Asaba😹 nobody is coming to save you
2026-10-21 12:16:35
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BUILD_WITH_ZIBAH :
so trueee
be your own woman
have your own money
do your things for yourself
men loves to do things for a woman that doesn't need it
2026-10-20 18:28:29
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bengaella001 :
I always say this, and honestly, I’m tired of trying to explain it. You cannot expect what you are not willing to be or give. Energies should be reciprocated positively. If one person is doing better and genuinely trying to make things work, the other should be willing to learn, adapt, and grow too. Two people who are intentional about making things work can make the journey so much easier. But when one person is constantly trying to keep the ship afloat, the weight becomes too much. Eventually, they begin to lose themselves in the process. It drains them. I acknowledge that I’m a work in progress, and I constantly strive to become a better version of myself. Honestly, I do not want to be with someone who makes me become a version of myself I fought so hard not to be. It took a lot to become the person I am today, and I refuse to lose that version of myself trying to make a relationship work.
2026-10-20 21:18:59
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Chef Happy 🧑🍳 🧑🍳 :
My gender are not even ready for this conversation at all, they just want the soft life forgetting it takes a lot for it to happen
2026-10-20 19:05:44
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