The saddest thing, I'm just learning this, is that the more you help, the more you show up, the more they have hate and resentment and dislike for you.
2026-10-20 17:59:54
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JennyJenJen :
Even with your adult sons....let them do it on their own.
2026-10-20 18:58:51
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Asha :
Helping them is such bad luck 🫠
2026-10-20 19:08:28
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𝒜𝓃𝓈𝓁𝑒𝓎 :
Domt save someone who doesn’t want to be saved
2026-10-20 13:39:22
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Patrice A. :
My granny would say you see a man down walk on pass him
2026-10-20 23:47:38
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TyToo :
I remember when he told me "I'm surrounded by all these people yet nobody is willing to help me but you."🚩 Baby, I was so happy that he noticed that I was there for him...That same man turned around, discarded me and moved on! I learned my lesson.
2026-10-20 20:49:39
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GeminiMOM❤️🔱🖤🇺🇸🦅♟️♊️ :
Yes and you will be punished for helping them. Every time I’ve tried to help, I fell short on something or something fell off. That goes for family members too. 😏
2026-10-20 15:41:09
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Dria Juggz :
Still learning the hard way in my 30s smh! So hard when you’re a giver but I promise I’m not giving a soul anything else!
2026-10-21 16:04:57
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BrooklynNellz2 :
I’ve been preaching this to women for years! They said it’s because I’m “broke and never been in love.” Okay girl! 😂
2026-10-20 18:15:42
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sazccha :
They will drag you so low! By the time you wake up, you’ll have NOTHING just like them 😳
2026-10-21 00:15:12
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Honey🩺 :
Thought I was his “rider” that man looked me in my bare face and with his white tongue said “but i didn’t ask you to do none of that for me”……He set the precedent for every man after that, and I learned to stop over AND extending myself, I had to learn boundaries and enforcing them for my own protection
2026-10-20 18:19:48
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Kadeen :
girl i lost everything trying to do this when i say everything i mean everything
2026-10-21 12:15:36
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DaBlackWildThornBerries 🌳🏕️ :
This …….. someone lost they life helping a man
2026-10-21 12:07:57
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Esther R Alexandra Verne :
Yeap they will resent you. I have seen it.
2026-10-20 15:47:34
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Evergreen Girl💛💚💙 :
Learned the hard way. NEVER AGAIN!
2026-10-20 17:35:07
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Jj :
Speak sis❤️❤️❤️👏👏
2026-10-21 10:52:48
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Fab :
I learned this from my first relationship. Ain’t never help a man since and that was 6 years ago, I’m good love. 🤭
2026-10-21 00:21:52
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Bierrax0 :
Learned That Traumatic Ass Lesson , My God 😳.
2026-10-20 18:07:49
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NayasWorld :
I just move out the way
2026-10-20 14:21:46
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heyerica___ :
Yes yes yes. They will absolutely hate you and punish you for the help smh.
2026-10-20 21:36:33
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Tema :
Don’t do it.. Reconsider!
2026-10-20 23:52:30
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QuelszzBaby :
I gave a man 40 dollars ONE TIME. This fool calls me the next week and said he about to pick up his son and needs to borrow 200 bucks and he can stop by my house and get it after he got his son. immediately blocked. the way I levitated to the damn ceiling😭 I was soooooo angry at myself.
2026-10-20 19:11:51
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Alaysia Tionne :
And ya can't change em
2026-10-21 01:05:46
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driaba3_ :
Exactly now he helping me cuz u gonna do something around here
2026-10-20 23:04:57
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missseptember :
I learned at the ripe age of 28.
2026-10-21 12:17:23
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