Yesterday I found out my partner is expecting another child with another woman- I almost lost my cool and got out of character but I remembered that’s really not who I am. I simply walked away, I could not keep up with the situation ✋🏾
2026-10-24 06:37:26
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Sj_Dingi :
And I’ve never been in a physical fight in my life because of this! Self control ❤️
2026-11-08 13:13:39
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zodwalaxa1 :
So so true
2026-11-10 04:50:05
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SameBags :
Sometimes it takes steps such as breathing exercises and sleeping things off
2026-10-20 14:40:22
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Liesl Laurie-Mthombeni :
This!!!
2026-10-21 17:26:08
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Zandile Sithole :
I pray about this every time yho😭😭😭
2026-10-21 10:06:44
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Pautavia’suniverse :
Honestly!! Deep breaths & its not worth your reputation 🙌🏾
2026-10-21 14:50:43
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TZ. :
Self control saved me from so many tricky situations this year 😅🙏🏾
2026-10-21 04:24:12
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Bumblebee🐝🤍 :
And sometimes they do spiteful things knowingly because they know your triggers, don't give them that grace!
2026-10-23 04:26:40
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Pasi :
Word !!
2026-10-21 07:31:27
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Lebo Lion |Marketing & Reviews :
A WORD!!!
2026-10-21 05:06:50
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Becoming Dr. Sabelo (PhD) :
"Self-control is the most powerful tool to have in life, especially in this life"-by Aubrey Mbatha🥰🥰🥰🥰
2026-10-20 16:01:59
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Maggie njugush :
keep your composure.. they're waiting on you to get out of character💯💯
2026-10-23 08:07:44
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Diobe_Diaries💍❤️ :
We are not responsible for how people behave or for their character flaws but we are responsible for how we react 🙌
2026-10-23 23:21:05
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Thokoza_Granma 📿🧚🏽♀️ :
Oh yes iSelf Khuzeka will ALWAYS come in handy when you know how and when to activate it ❤️
2026-10-20 15:25:12
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GM :
It’s always gonna be about how you reacted EXACTLY
2026-10-21 21:53:50
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Deovanie Cloete. :
Such a powerful tool for real🤞🏽🤞🏽
2026-10-21 15:05:15
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MaDlamini :
There is so much power in being quiet. I love it so much. 🤭🤭
2026-10-25 19:29:55
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Siphesihle Mjindi :
Silence is the best tool or removing yourself from the situation will do you wonders.
2026-10-26 08:57:09
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. :
Pick your battles 🫠
2026-10-21 13:55:36
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GlitzyGlamQueen :
always tell yourself when faced in confrontation not everything needs a reaction thats how I keep my power
2026-10-21 12:07:46
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nellie.mkh :
There’s nothing core to me like self control 🤞🏻 I can’t afford to ruin my reputation and morals for something that is 99% never worth it
2026-10-21 05:10:06
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MaMyambo🇿🇦ᥫ᭡🧚🏻♀️. :
🙏🏿 peace that suppress all understanding in time of change , grief, loss , chaos that’s my everyday day prayer
2026-10-22 18:01:42
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Baluh KaMadlanduna :
It very hard bethunana
2026-10-22 06:31:33
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