@shedecided8: Marriage: Love or Free Labor? They told women marriage was the ultimate achievement. The happily ever after. The prize. But let's talk about who has historically benefited from all that unpaid labor. The cooking. The cleaning. The childcare. The emotional support. The appointments. The planning. The endless mental load of keeping an entire household running. And somehow, all of that became a woman's responsibility simply because she said, "I do." Women were taught to measure their worth by how much they could sacrifice for their families, while their sacrifices were dismissed as just being a good wife. Marriage should be a partnership, not a lifetime employment contract with no paycheck, no vacation, and no retirement benefits. And now that women have the freedom to question that arrangement, suddenly there's concern about why fewer women want to get married. Women aren't rejecting love. We're rejecting exploitation disguised as tradition. Here's my question: If women stopped providing unpaid domestic labor tomorrow, how many marriages would survive? #SheDecided #UnpaidLabor #MarriageAndWomen #MentalLoad #Feminism

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bookbunnyhbic
bookbunnyhbic :
If marriage benefitted women they would have denied us access.
2026-10-20 15:08:43
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vitamink262
Kell :
Marraige was designed so that even the poorest man can afford a maid
2026-10-22 03:14:09
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suse347
Suse :
Nope - not for me they don't.
2026-10-23 17:41:38
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lucy08649
Lucy :
I disagree. My husband is my biggest supporter.
2026-10-20 18:25:44
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khrikette
khrikette :
please research the history of marriage. it has nothing to do with love. check also the history of religion and which came first.
2026-10-22 13:55:05
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mercedes5280
🩵♾️🦋💜Mercedes 5280💜🦋♾️🩵 :
& that men never provided for us, they just stopped us from providing for ourselves, & that if marriage benefited women, they world have taken it away from us already.
2026-10-20 17:52:40
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shrapnyl
Shrapnel :
You forgot to include access to your assets (all forms) - to exploit you in every way. Capitalism ruined relationships
2026-10-22 16:56:20
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williejandthepoorboys
☠️Willie.J☠️ :
Goes both ways
2026-10-21 17:21:48
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anastasiiaastraea
Anastasiia R. Astraea :
oh. my. gosh.
2026-10-22 05:41:46
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patty2022peanutz
Patrizia :
When that man works all day, yes here's your dinner.
2026-10-20 22:15:57
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no86443
No :
YOU DON'T GET PAID TO BE A HOUSE WIFE.
2026-10-20 20:31:38
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lizzy.istiredofit
Sick & tired :
Block & report all BOTS. "Deceptive Behavior and Spam", choose SPAM.
2026-10-20 19:08:05
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kristenhooten
🔥MissHellfire🔥 :
agree
2026-10-23 02:50:20
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jim17430
Jim :
Where do you find the absolute bs
2026-10-20 23:48:33
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seesnails2
Sees Nails :
It’s literally true
2026-10-20 22:23:19
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touching_reasons
Ms Kimmy :
if it is good for us they control it. 😈
2026-10-20 15:40:13
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tammy.rhodes755
tammy Rhodes :
2026-10-22 00:01:16
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nmowlady1
NMow :
Agree💯💯💯
2026-10-21 03:17:44
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sempreparabellum
wheres the list? :
how is it unpaid if their needs and wants are met?
2026-10-21 12:10:51
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and_she_did
And_She_Did :
Yup, I basically replaced his mommy
2026-10-21 18:36:39
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dr..maria.alexandr
Dr. MAS :
Truth
2026-10-21 00:18:38
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kathrynjjg
kathryng :
maybe back in the day. he doesn't get unpaid labor unless you give it to him. if he's like that while you're dating why would you marry him?
2026-10-21 17:54:20
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dnl866
dnl866 :
Both of you should be equally yoked in a marriage.
2026-10-21 04:10:06
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mststill
MsTStill :
Marriage isn’t necessary.
2026-10-21 09:41:44
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missgreeneyes219
MissGreenEyes :
A wedding ring is the smallest Handcuff. Esposa in Spanish means wife. Esposa(s) means handcuffs. Think about THAT.
2026-10-21 19:24:03
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