@shedecided8: Marriage: Love or Free Labor? They told women marriage was the ultimate achievement. The happily ever after. The prize. But let's talk about who has historically benefited from all that unpaid labor. The cooking. The cleaning. The childcare. The emotional support. The appointments. The planning. The endless mental load of keeping an entire household running. And somehow, all of that became a woman's responsibility simply because she said, "I do." Women were taught to measure their worth by how much they could sacrifice for their families, while their sacrifices were dismissed as just being a good wife. Marriage should be a partnership, not a lifetime employment contract with no paycheck, no vacation, and no retirement benefits. And now that women have the freedom to question that arrangement, suddenly there's concern about why fewer women want to get married. Women aren't rejecting love. We're rejecting exploitation disguised as tradition. Here's my question: If women stopped providing unpaid domestic labor tomorrow, how many marriages would survive? #SheDecided #UnpaidLabor #MarriageAndWomen #MentalLoad #Feminism
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Tuesday 20 October 2026 14:20:28 GMT
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bookbunnyhbic :
If marriage benefitted women they would have denied us access.
2026-10-20 15:08:43
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Kell :
Marraige was designed so that even the poorest man can afford a maid
2026-10-22 03:14:09
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Suse :
Nope - not for me they don't.
2026-10-23 17:41:38
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Lucy :
I disagree. My husband is my biggest supporter.
2026-10-20 18:25:44
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khrikette :
please research the history of marriage. it has nothing to do with love. check also the history of religion and which came first.
2026-10-22 13:55:05
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🩵♾️🦋💜Mercedes 5280💜🦋♾️🩵 :
& that men never provided for us, they just stopped us from providing for ourselves, & that if marriage benefited women, they world have taken it away from us already.
2026-10-20 17:52:40
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Shrapnel :
You forgot to include access to your assets (all forms) - to exploit you in every way. Capitalism ruined relationships
2026-10-22 16:56:20
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☠️Willie.J☠️ :
Goes both ways
2026-10-21 17:21:48
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Anastasiia R. Astraea :
oh. my. gosh.
2026-10-22 05:41:46
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Patrizia :
When that man works all day, yes here's your dinner.
2026-10-20 22:15:57
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No :
YOU DON'T GET PAID TO BE A HOUSE WIFE.
2026-10-20 20:31:38
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Sick & tired :
Block & report all BOTS. "Deceptive Behavior and Spam", choose SPAM.
2026-10-20 19:08:05
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🔥MissHellfire🔥 :
agree
2026-10-23 02:50:20
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Jim :
Where do you find the absolute bs
2026-10-20 23:48:33
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Sees Nails :
It’s literally true
2026-10-20 22:23:19
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Ms Kimmy :
if it is good for us they control it. 😈
2026-10-20 15:40:13
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tammy Rhodes :
2026-10-22 00:01:16
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NMow :
Agree💯💯💯
2026-10-21 03:17:44
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wheres the list? :
how is it unpaid if their needs and wants are met?
2026-10-21 12:10:51
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And_She_Did :
Yup, I basically replaced his mommy
2026-10-21 18:36:39
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Dr. MAS :
Truth
2026-10-21 00:18:38
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kathryng :
maybe back in the day. he doesn't get unpaid labor unless you give it to him. if he's like that while you're dating why would you marry him?
2026-10-21 17:54:20
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dnl866 :
Both of you should be equally yoked in a marriage.
2026-10-21 04:10:06
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MsTStill :
Marriage isn’t necessary.
2026-10-21 09:41:44
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MissGreenEyes :
A wedding ring is the smallest Handcuff.
Esposa in Spanish means wife.
Esposa(s) means handcuffs.
Think about THAT.
2026-10-21 19:24:03
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