As a 46 year old man let me tell you youngsters on here something: confidence is EVERYTHING
2026-10-20 19:38:00
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half man half bat all freak :
why should change yourself to be choosen instead of being choosen for being yourself
2026-10-20 16:42:58
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tommy_twotimes52 :
get in the gym 3-4 days per week, really get a skin care routine, and upgrade your wardrobe. only way it works is if you do it consistently and intentionally.
2026-10-20 23:31:32
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𝔇𝔬𝔬𝔪𝔢𝔯 𝔎𝔯𝔦𝔢𝔤 :
Money and height
2026-10-20 22:57:05
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designateduser :
Only Casual Relationships: Genuinely getting a better body shape is life changing. You don't even have to be Chris Evans or ScarJo, literally any amount of extra muscle you can put on or little bit of fat you can shave off pays dividends.
Dating/Longterm: But that is just the shell, confidence truly is key. Being comfortable with yourself is truly the stuff that makes people stay around you. This isnt just in how you walk or your posture, but how you joke, how you talk about yourself and others, how you take insults, or if you can laugh at yourself.
Eventually Marriage: You gotta be financially set. This doesn't even mean rich, but you can't be constantly blowing money on stupid shit while struggling to pay bills. You gotta know when/how to save and when to splurge. Everyone wants to be able to not worry about money, being wise about finances makes your partner happier by putting their mind at ease.
2026-10-29 10:54:07
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uNhOLy :
I agree with the gym. Both physically and mentally and emotionally. 😭💪
2026-10-22 05:21:31
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TylerT :
Gym isn’t a lie. Women like men who are healthy. It’ll raise your test which will make other features in you look better. Finding a haircut and beard style that suits your body. Dressing in more neutral colors. Wearing dress shoes and boots instead of tennis shoes. Wearing jeans and v necks instead of sweats, shorts and hoodies. And above anything else we control the conversations. Speak with confidence but also light flirting and make them feel happy and comfortable while doing it. The knowledge came to me after I turned 25-26 things are coming together nicely now.
2026-10-20 23:13:49
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David_Webb :
I wholeheartedly disagree with the notion that you can't love somebody else until you love yourself. It's the opposite. You can't love yourself until you love somebody else.
2026-10-21 10:07:06
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magmabongo :
Humour is part of your personality. You can't simply become a funnier person
2026-10-22 16:51:26
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user6223438401840 :
Calling gym a hobby is actually insane
2026-11-03 23:30:37
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Sheng :
The best fashion for a guy is just being in shape
2026-11-01 10:20:15
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user1489644885823 :
Wear a wedding ring even if you are single
2026-10-21 11:26:36
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Jiang Cheng's Wife ❤️ :
By not looking at other women
2026-10-20 16:13:27
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cdg_tesfaye :
Gym make urself great, reading make ur mindset grow, be kind, smell nice and respect that how attractive man work
2026-10-25 07:18:51
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AniaJ :
Having a hamster
2026-10-20 22:22:14
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naomi🧎🏾♀️ :
maturity beats all
2026-10-20 16:11:37
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kendeysss :
gym really improved my life — mentally, time management, no time to social media specifically ig & fb (so i cant see what’s going on their lives), boost confidence and makes my life very meaningful.
2026-10-20 23:16:12
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Broski :
Being pretty funny and confident goes pretty far, if they’re not interested accept. Thrive in rejection and being uncomfortable. Trust. You’ll find the one :)
2026-11-06 11:38:52
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Ty Unglebower :
Gym is good for your health. But please don’t assume it makes you more attractive. There is no guarantee of it if you were not considered attractive before.
2026-11-04 05:00:55
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Mento Von Maur :
I've had face since I was a child then height as I matured 🤷♂️
2026-11-10 01:40:12
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Ray Loc612 :
Braces & sleep
2026-10-30 15:22:15
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el :
agreeable with slide 6th
2026-11-12 12:06:34
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