Nj maternity leave is literally the worst, I’m sorry mama & I feel this!
2026-10-21 12:17:52
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Maliyah 🫶🏽 :
as someone whose been on maternity leave since june in NJ and HAVE YET to be paid… i go back in 3 weeks and haven’t seen a dime!!! and they have YET to approve my bonding leave. but just approved my maternity leave a week ago i filed in june….
2026-10-20 18:48:27
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Mercy-aura🇱🇨 :
I’m quitting as soon as I give birth! I work for the post office I get no maternity leave and no state benefits cause I’m a “federal worker”. On top of that I get no federal benefits cause the post office don’t qualify for it. I’m stacking up so I can spend at least 3 months with my baby before going back to get another job!
2026-10-20 17:42:32
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Chimoko4reall :
I can relate
2026-10-31 23:28:36
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Sejayda :
I’m so sorry. The last thing a woman should worry about is work and bills JUST after having a baby. This country is horrible. I pray things work out for you SWIFTLY! 🙏🏾
2026-10-20 16:38:57
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Lola 🌻 :
I’m a little pissed to say this but I saw a creator who is a stay at home mom she set up a go fund me they paid off $53k of her family debt n the husband works n she doesn’t. Why can’t we do this for you? Not even just u all of “us” im just upset because wth bro. People don’t know even if it’s $2 that will help. 😭
2026-10-20 18:29:41
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Mekayda Jones :
Had to go back 2 weeks pp 😕.. I get it.
2026-10-20 17:30:52
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Judy Carmel :
Yes. Last time I had to go back early. But I got that back pay. This time I filed correctly so my short term and bonding can ran concurrently. I’m out since June. Going back end of November
2026-10-20 19:57:50
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withloveshellyb :
Disability insurance is a scam!! I’ve been suffering from severe HG and basically I tried to go on STD they literally said it was a pre existing condition!! Smh 🤦🏾♀️I’m sorry girly hoping things get better for you. 💕
2026-10-20 18:05:38
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mxri309 :
This is so unfair.
2026-10-20 16:43:41
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krissywakeuppppppp :
it’s not your job that sucks it’s this country & administration 😩 i hope you’re doing well mentally & physically, along w the lil one🤍 also im w lola🫣 set up that gofundme or comment a way of payment 🫶🏼 it takes a village !
2026-10-20 20:38:04
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username1239499m1 :
I believe they are supposed to pay you a lump sum.
2026-10-20 23:01:12
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KrissyC :
That’s crazy I did nj disability with all 4 kids and never experienced that. My last I went out at 4 months. Did you speak with a supervisor or disability lawyer?
2026-10-20 16:45:53
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Janine :
I’m really sorry you’re going through this!!! 🥺🙏🏾
2026-10-20 16:36:31
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Weird Beauty Channel :
This is happening to me as well filed for disability in September got denied filed for Maternity leave still waiting to get from that which could take up to two weeks and expected to go back in November it’s already damn near the end of October
2026-10-20 16:47:36
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HIPEGGY | TI LANDENG :
Sigh
2026-10-20 16:42:48
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shyvonnbreezy :
I’m so nervous to go back to work so soon after having a baby. Did you have to find a daycare that would take yours so early?
2026-10-20 16:39:39
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Ruth :
Ugh hear me out ladies DO NOT have babies unless you or your partner is 100% financially stable. We are living in hard times! And kids do suffer a lot. I hope things get better for you❤️🩹
2026-10-21 02:40:22
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Leah 🩷 :
And they wonder why the birth rate is down. It’s not no abortions it’s bc why are we putting our bodies and babies in these situations. I’m so sorry girl you should be home with your baby
2026-10-20 19:06:39
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OG.ririariel :
I can’t believe this. Idk how you’re doing this 😭. Girl drop the Paypal, Zelle, Cashapp all the things so we can help. My baby is 4 months and i just went back to work. That’s been hell. I can’t imagine doing it at 3 weeks 😭😭😭😭
2026-10-23 22:38:26
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star bby :
yall need to contact your legislator boo there’s a whole facebook group chat on this for anyone that needs more info
2026-10-21 15:09:19
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Swaggysteve :
NJ take forever to release the money. I had to wait one month on paternity leave to get paid.
2026-10-21 16:07:28
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username72829081135 :
Call the governor office! I did that & my disability was processed the following day
2026-10-21 17:04:55
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NeemaYvonne🌻 :
Nj is literally the best when it comes to FMLA. It always comes in at 6 weeks. Then you should qualify for 12 weeks. You have to do your research and fight.
2026-10-21 15:10:19
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JaleshiaB :
You have to save prior unfortunately..
2026-10-21 14:05:31
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