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Gimmeyournachofries :
If it helps them, I didn’t care about the first one either.
2026-10-21 15:14:03
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🐈⬛ Reika 🍉 :
Also, her oldest is 3. She’s been pregnant 3 times in as many years.
2026-10-21 00:59:43
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cindi :
also in general - your milestones are YOURS, sometimes we just think about ourselves too much
2026-10-21 05:29:14
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Yana 🌝 ~ Lectrice en Irlande :
I think we celebrate the first child so much because that baby makes them PARENTS, the children that come after are great too but their status doesn’t change they re already parents
2026-10-21 12:46:38
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Iris :
also having more kids is just not viewed the same anymore, imo if someone has a fourth kid I am gonna start looking at them weird
2026-10-21 09:43:35
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Kaylyn Leigh 🩵💙 :
The only and I mean ONLY time I think it’s acceptable to have a baby shower after a first kid is if you have a BIG age gap between kids. This is coming from someone who doesn’t have kids yet. For example, my mom is nearly 11 years older than her sister. Idk if my grandma had a 2nd baby shower when she had my aunt, but if she did, I’d say that’s reasonable. She likely didn’t keep ANY of the baby stuff for 10+ years after my mom was born. BUT, you should NEVER ever ASK or EXPECT someone to host a shower for your 2nd, even IF there’s a big age gap.
2026-10-20 18:43:26
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JotaroMyBeloved :
I think some people get pregnant because it's the only time they hear "Congratulations".
2026-10-21 14:20:53
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BeesBeesBeesBees :
Some people were even meh about my mother getting her PhD because even though its a DOCTORATE, to a lot of family who never interacted with uni it was just "the same graduation but for the 3rd time"
2026-10-21 00:44:11
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🇲🇼Babe🇨🇦 :
First Day of 1st grade vs 4th grade 😂
2026-10-20 22:51:03
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Mai :
The context of the video was a pregnancy after miscarriage, surely you’d be able to muster up a congratulations for someone who’s experienced a loss like that
2026-10-21 01:16:38
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Amanda M 🔵 :
This is like getting mad because I'm not coming to your 4th wedding after I attended the first 3!
2026-10-20 22:37:29
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toasted veda & cheese :
It's like, if you run a marathon. Super exciting the first time! the fourth time? still a great achievement...just not as novel and exciting!
2026-10-21 12:01:03
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James :
the ONLY exception of a milestone id be excited to celebrate multiple times is a graduation, (multiple degrees, PhDs, doctorates, ect) always gonna be impressive to me no matter how many times it's done
2026-10-21 02:01:36
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dippydinderton :
We are in a recession. I want to be a mom but I can not afford it. I don’t feel like I should have to give gifts for every child someone decided to have. That is your responsibility
2026-10-21 03:12:17
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Lysa Shimkus :
Some ppl just want you to celebrate them-give them constant praise & validation. It was never about the child or the milestone 🙄
2026-10-21 14:18:37
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Mar ✨ :
I don’t think anyone is obligated to celebrate every birth but as a friend Im down to celebrate every degree, every birth, every race lmao just let me know and if its in my capacity Im there. Life is meant to be celebrated 🤷🏾♀️
2026-10-21 16:04:12
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Sindri :
At this point, I don’t celebrate any birth because it’s ridiculous to bring a vulnerable child into this nightmare we’re all living through. And it will only get worse.
2026-10-21 15:42:04
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shub :
I saw a video a long time ago which said "because having kids is the only milestone they ever achieved in life" so when they dont get the same hype (because they will never get congratulated anywhere else) they feel like they are being robbed of celebration
2026-10-21 01:01:35
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🍉katie :
When I had my third child I didn’t need anything. We didn’t even find out the gender. I agree with you 100%. My family was PRESSED I didn’t want a shower. I was like why do I need one!? I had everything and was in a financial place to buy whatever I needed.
2026-10-20 21:30:06
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🩶 :
celebrating a 3rd baby is FOR the baby.. not to celebrate the parent/"milestone". And I don't want financial support, I just want people to be just as haply as they were with my 1st.
2026-10-21 14:32:42
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insanely_skye :
A baby shower isn’t even to celebrate the child itself. No one knows the kid yet. It’s to shower the mother with support and gifts for her journey into motherhood. Because becoming a mom for the first time is HARD and a major life change. Multiple baby showers don’t make sense.
2026-10-21 16:37:01
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Aileen 🪷 :
Yeah no that’s fucking weird. If the people in your life do not celebrate each child equally then they don’t deserve to be in your life or the child’s life.
2026-10-21 15:46:40
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Cheshire :
As the third child of four, even the parents aren’t as excited the third time around 💀
2026-10-21 15:09:36
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alealejandraaa___ :
Having a child is not an accomplishment, is a life long decision that people tend to take very lightly because they just want a baby
2026-10-21 16:51:45
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Ash 🏎 :
Also like the whole point of a baby shower is to gift first time parents things that they don’t have yet, if you’re having more kids most of the stuff you were given with the first one should still be usable…
2026-10-21 03:42:29
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