@dorciwalker: Making more memorable moments comes from giving people the chance to be imperfect and human #hosting #dinnerparty #marthastewart #thanksgiving #fallrecipe
honestly 10/10 analogy, I just hosted a Halloween party (that went amazing) but since then I can't stop thinking like "I wish I had gone more all out with decorations" or "I wish I had more themed food", meanwhile everyone was social and dancing and had fun. Its so easy to get caught up in the appearances of it all
2026-10-26 21:02:14
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kittydionne :
I totally agree. I think starting with a top desk vibe and transitioning people into a bottom deck vibe is especially memorable (and a whole skill set of its own).
2026-10-21 13:34:50
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Rosie :
Fun decorations, comfort food and chocolate cake. If you come for dinner you’re getting chicken pot pie and salad and it will be fantastic but very low effort for me. I always set a fun table with lots of candles.
2026-10-20 21:33:05
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patrickthomas735 :
Very , very well put.
2026-10-27 16:06:52
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zachary6784 :
“The real luxury is community” hits hard
2026-10-23 23:49:52
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Mark Vermylen :
The Irish understand this intuitively
2026-10-26 21:24:28
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AshleyWhittaker :
As a top deck host, the trick is connecting the top to the bottom by creating memorable moments and unique experiences
2026-10-21 12:56:39
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thirdspacedinner :
BUT HOW CAN PEOPLE FEEL MORE ALIVE? Especially when gathering people from all backgrounds (genuine question I wrestle with often)
2026-10-21 16:32:51
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gordybear1 :
I usually host
2026-10-27 02:03:48
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andy :
YOU GET IT!!!!
2026-10-28 02:04:23
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SwissBreezy DIY | Art | Garden :
This is so true. A perfect, an anxiety releasing, explanation
2026-10-27 00:58:58
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GildedHush :
Great perspective and excellent example🌺
2026-10-26 22:25:56
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ydnim :
as a wedding photographer, this also applies to weddings. who said that? 👀
2026-10-27 22:51:45
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Dana :
This is so good as a titanic fanatic
2026-10-27 19:46:33
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Trisha :
As someone who loved events and puts on a lot of great ones I think some people really are just bad hosts and bad vibes curators. They may be a good friend, a lovely person, and have many other strengths but not everyone is good at bringing people together and curating an enjoyable space. Even a professionally decorated/ aesthetic event will fall flat if the host doesn’t bring the right energy and set the tone. Also being thoughtful about the guests in attendance and their experience is key
2026-10-20 21:43:49
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Marie Dragdeline :
This is how I feel about weddings high key,
2026-10-26 12:54:38
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Cheerovereverything :
Heavy on community❤️
2026-10-25 14:57:07
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🧁 :
Omg I just had two of your videos back to back that’s so weird
2026-10-22 23:48:53
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regz 🤠 :
this is such a good analogy!
2026-10-21 01:04:58
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Ximena :
Omg yes !!! What advice you will give me to make a party memorable? I will have good music and food + drinks since I’m throwing a masquerade party but what would I need to add to make my guest feel comfortable? It is a community event so friends and new people will be there. Don’t want it to feel performative
2026-10-20 18:39:46
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TheMainLineFind :
Yes!!!!! You should post these to Instagram! I wanna share all of these! Wise words.
2026-10-20 18:26:41
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heyjaimefish :
What are your best tips for infusing a gathering with bottom deck vibes?
2026-10-25 22:28:03
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