@jagheterhope: #leadinglady #matriarchy #decentermen PS: As a woman w Swedish heritage who’s travelled around Scandinavia and studied cultural differences, I’m very familiar with Scandinavian social norms around personal space. Scandinavians generally tend to be more conscious of maintaining a respectful distance from others, whether on public transportation, in queues, or in everyday public interactions. This is a cultural difference I’m aware of and have personally observed. I’m speaking about general social norms, not suggesting that every individual behaves the same way. 🇸🇪🇳🇴
Having conversations with women: don’t ask about the men in their lives. It’s not an important topic
2026-10-21 00:10:10
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stace.tt :
When we're passing each other in an aisle or sidewalk, I don't move over.
2026-10-20 22:19:39
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Angie :
I have adapted every single slide into my life since I was… 15? 16? I’m in my 30’s now and happily, happily married to a man. He knows my boundaries and knows how much I genuinely despise male-centered practices. I am forever grateful for him- and yet I STILL value my alone time, MY career, and my life. I have never lost sight of who I am in marriage and have always remained that I can leave whenever I want if I chose. I remain firm that being married is not the most important or interesting thing about me. And- plot twist- we are the happiest we’ve been. When I tell people this they often scoff and insist he will leave me… we’ve been together for years though, so I guess the joke is on them.
2026-10-21 15:14:54
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thiccasaurasrex :
All of this but also I don't associate myself with male centered women either.
2026-10-21 06:34:01
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Caresha Bradshaw :
I live life as if they don’t exist. It’s so much better for my mental health
2026-10-21 00:54:33
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Sarah Madeline :
Don’t laugh when they make “jokes” that aren’t funny. Ask them to explain
2026-10-20 23:29:55
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blackprincess4090 :
Left religion , I don’t worship men
2026-10-21 14:09:30
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reweaving_kinship :
Part of decentering men is not shaping our lives around them. Yet this post only talks about men and doesn’t mention what you will do towards women or even your community of women known or not. Man hating is still centering on men. In todays age when people are vanishing and this admin is targeting all of us, and we keep hearing these patriarchal systems come to light in their dark operations, community and collective wellbeing needs to be the goal. Cool if you want to do it towards women only thats your choice, yet here not once does it mention how these benefit the community of women around you. The most troubling slide was the last one as it shows privilege and capitalist construct of we keep to ourselves and our own everyone else can get screwed unless I gain something.
2026-10-21 15:33:08
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📚Kay☀️🤷🏾♀️ :
Heavy on the I DON’T HELP MEN. Period
2026-10-21 02:23:01
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Nat :
He disappoints you once, he’ll disappoint again and again. Blocked immediately, no explanation.
2026-10-21 01:11:29
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Piper :
10 is so out of pocket. Literally “it’s your fault if you’re poor”
2026-10-21 15:36:30
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olivia.sharonn :
I just ignore them completely like they don’t exist.
2026-10-21 15:05:50
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ryann.gif :
i noticed at my restaurant job a lot of my male coworkers never got out of the way even if you said excuse me. i just started shoulder checking all of them. many of them now apologize if they run into me now 😂
2026-10-21 03:28:34
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Cinnabunns :
This is why I quit thanksgiving in my family it’s a patriarch bullshit they all sit around and get served while we sweat cook and clean up all damn day I’m going to the beach from this year forward
2026-10-21 03:13:23
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Asiddburrn :
I'm using this as my lock screen now. 🫂
2026-10-21 14:58:36
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Crystal :
I like to man spread back. I’m not minimizing myself for anyone! 😂
2026-10-20 23:00:03
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M1lls1987 :
Number 10!!!!!!
2026-10-21 15:18:48
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Láska :
“A man failing in a patriarchal system is a red flag” thank you for this new perspective 💕
2026-10-21 12:56:15
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Gwenovere :
Anywhere I go, I ask if there’s a woman I can talk to: woman dr, woman attendant, woman mechanic. No woman? No money from me. Sometimes working with men is unavoidable, but I will go out of my way to find a woman to do the job.
2026-10-21 11:12:47
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Glasgow Gal 🏴 :
Always, always remember: A woman’s intuition is man’s worst enemy. If it doesn’t feel right, get the hell out.
2026-10-21 13:51:06
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warmntoasty :
This is unhinged?? I live this every day. Misandry & me, baby
2026-10-21 01:56:30
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cashmere :
This applies to them all. Your brothers, your cousins, your dad, your grandfathers. And for the boy moms: this applies to YOUR SONS ESPECIALLY. ALL. OF. THEM. Decenter them ALL!
2026-10-21 00:19:13
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Weird blow fish otter :
4!!! I never look at men. Sometimes I can feel them stare at me, trying to get me to look back at them. Nope. Never. I have a “pissed off” look took. I don’t want them to think they are worthy of attention
2026-10-21 00:56:20
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gnat 🧈 :
I was walking my dog and a guy approached us in the same side. We were literally inches from each other at a halt and he goes “you wanna move?” I look at him in disgust- “do YOU wanna mOvE” and he scoffed, shook his head, and moved.
2026-10-21 03:07:55
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