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Liz | Therapist :
As a therapist, 100% disagree 😬😬😬
2026-10-21 13:13:24
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Josh Bivins🦆🇺🇲 :
so I heal with my ex... right?
2026-10-21 00:06:43
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Mindy :
You 100% NEED to heal alone, to learn how to love YOURSELF. Learning how to “be better” only in a relation is fucking WILD, bro.
2026-10-21 02:20:24
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Katiem012 :
Thank you... that's what i always said plus I just want that person already
2026-10-22 23:40:35
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Diesel Kyle Doodle :
Disagree alone is the best
2026-10-22 02:06:58
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kaymertle :
But what if I healed so much that I don’t want a relationship? 😭🤣
2026-10-22 21:14:29
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Brian c :
that is incorrect, being alone, is the only way to heal yourself. take that from a person who's been through hell. and healed/healing from it.
2026-10-22 12:49:08
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Anthony :
From your perspective this sounds like you’re codependent. You dont NEED to be in a relationship to heal. If anything relationships distract you from yourself
2026-10-21 11:53:59
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Deana Gayle ❌ :
I will not bleed on someone who did not cut me. I won’t do that to them. I don’t want to hurt someone just to not be lonely. That’s how this whole shit show started.
2026-10-23 01:48:20
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g 🪼 :
huh. that’s like the opposite of what to do.
2026-10-22 14:14:48
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🧭 :
Well she's gone so that's not happening. However, I got a therapist. She will have to do
2026-10-22 14:22:25
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Joe :
Who Tf said I wanna be healed.
2026-10-22 16:52:10
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Ness :
This is the most inaccurate thing… you can’t heal with another person. It is NOT another person’s responsibility to heal you or take on your past traumas WITH YOU. You do it ALONE. And then when you’re ready, you no longer bleed on people that didn’t cut you and expect them to be “patient.”
2026-10-22 02:40:45
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Shannon Nicoll :
I agree and disagree
2026-10-22 08:32:59
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Labby Love :
This is absolutely true. There are some triggers that only come out in a relationship.
2026-10-21 09:44:12
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Jandyce :
Insanity
2026-10-21 05:59:50
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ohkaykai :
I don’t believe this.
2026-10-21 08:36:17
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dragracer_93 :
yes you can
2026-10-21 02:30:47
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Isaak Mejia :
Nah
2026-10-21 07:53:51
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⚓️ Anchored HeArts 💖 :
In relationship with Jesus yes
2026-10-22 02:52:06
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ashleykee0 :
I tired that, more destroyed then I was before
2026-10-21 17:09:24
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Alp11274 :
This is wronggggg.
2026-10-21 13:12:49
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ceci :
No worst advice
2026-10-21 19:46:54
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rayadarksideofthemoon :
You don't need somebody in your life to heal. You don't need somebody to trigger you to heal. You can find those triggers yourself and you can find those belief systems. You are self. The other person just kind of helps. You highlighted a little better but it doesn't mean you need them to heal. I am 19 months out of a 13 year relationship with a narcissist I did not need him in my life to heal. I did not need anybody in my life to heal. I found myself by myself for myself for my kids. I'm rebuilding my foundation where I'm not having to rely on somebody else to have to be there if they want to be there there's a difference.
2026-10-21 14:55:19
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𝒜𝓃𝒶𝓈𝓉𝒶𝓈𝒾𝒶 🪐 :
I’m allowing myself to be single for a year after this one idk
2026-10-21 03:33:52
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