Definitely comes from unhealed trauma. I refuse to raise a man I didn’t birth.
2026-10-21 12:46:21
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S H E L B Y :
Oh you’re talking about a narcissist.
2026-10-21 12:43:52
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thiccbarb1 :
I just left a dude for exactly this!
2026-10-21 21:10:17
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honeyellla :
Yep story of my life 🤣
2026-10-21 19:40:31
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mariejustin25 :
Been single 8 yrs. Finally found a man I really liked and enjoyed. He turned out to be all of this. 🥺
2026-10-21 18:26:15
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Dilya :
very true
2026-10-21 20:10:35
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Patty Pantaloons :
I was with an emotionally immature man for 20 years, I would say he’s a covert narcissist. Intentions are not relevant if it is a continued pattern of behavior. If You are dealing with a man who exhibits any of these examples, if you can leave, leave. Because no amount of softness, no amount of rephrasing your question, no amount of love and understanding will change their behavior if they do not want to change. They are not emotionally safe, and should not be in relationships until they get themselves the help that they need.
2026-10-21 17:32:40
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🧿ninalovez1❤️ ⭕️🧿🧿🧿🧿 :
this all sounds familiar
2026-10-21 19:59:14
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humbleone :
I’m leaving I can’t do it anymore 😭
2026-10-21 15:28:55
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blaquequeen815 :
it would be nice to see as many videos stating why they do it or how to spot it how about telling them how they can regulate it thats beneficial info as well
2026-10-21 15:54:27
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KeykiWitDaGoodHair44 :
Or “u always fussin” or ion like feeling pressed
2026-10-21 15:01:00
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Opadoyin Esugbemi :
I just cut a dude for these same reasons 😅
2026-10-21 16:25:00
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Denise Bond :
I am married to somebody who is emotionally immature but he doesn't have any desire to fix it
2026-10-21 16:34:55
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MH28 :
"I'm sorry you feel that way" NO accountability- Ever!
2026-10-21 01:44:25
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jocelynandrews16 :
I'm married to one of these men and I've been dealing with it for over 6 and a 1/2 years, and even though I'm hardcore on honoring my vows and standing on my beliefs, I wish every day I should have left or would have left. It's to the point where I lost my identity. I'm spiritually, mentally and emotionally numb. I feel like I'm just an object. Existing barely surviving. But I talk to god and I pray that he helps me develop the strength and the courage to leave and give me what I need to redefine myself as a woman again
2026-10-21 16:25:54
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Naomi :
I prayyy this come across my ex fyp😭
2026-10-21 12:52:52
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forgive_urself666 :
Blueface
2026-10-21 15:13:15
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ABeautifulreader📚🏳️🌈 :
I just need to “understand” how to protect my children from this. I am old enough to protect myself. Both our girls are neurodivergent so ids
2026-10-21 13:23:35
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Oheema Monique Harrigan :
I had to end the relationship. It was EXHAUSTING not being heard or understood.
2026-10-21 15:19:50
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Toni Webb :
and what if they realize this and want help, are getting help? what next?
2026-10-21 15:32:03
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user2601795949622 :
Crazy!!! I've experienced it for too long. Glad its done!
2026-10-21 13:16:15
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🪴👑Authentic Queen 👑🪴 :
Accurate.
2026-10-21 00:52:16
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Madame 🦋 :
Been through all of it, and it ended the relationship because of them.
💯🎯‼️
2026-10-21 16:51:11
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🖤🖤🖤 :
ope my husband
2026-10-21 11:36:04
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osunwaterstarot :
Ase
2026-10-21 12:41:24
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