How do you keep yearning even when you’re in a relationship? I want to feed that part of me I just can’t get it right
2026-10-21 15:24:52
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Katia :
yearning is like a very internal painful want that you can almost already feel
2026-10-20 23:58:31
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Dawn :
Yearning such a beautiful ache
2026-11-10 19:06:00
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ReclusiveCoi :
that was worded so beautifully
2026-10-21 06:00:34
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Matt Kaan | AI :
Wanting closeness before it exists, carrying unexpressed words and affection... Is it love? or Is it Limerence? Is your heart aching? or Is your brain hooked on the maybes, mistaking its own addiction to uncertainty for destiny. Yet again, what's the point of asking if our paths cross again, when she’s my path...Love is a decision.
2026-10-22 15:41:07
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Phil_M8ks :
It’s interesting to read comments describing “yearning” as a desired end state. To me, yearning is pain. As you described it, there’s a desire for more that’s fundamental to yearning. Even when that desire is reciprocated, yearning implies something remains unfulfilled. I can appreciate the beauty in yearning, but I struggle to see it as something to aspire to instead of something we hope eventually leads to fulfillment.
2026-10-21 12:50:28
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Polygontremor :
the thing that strikes me about yearning (and its seeming popularity) is that to yearn is to *not* attain something--like having your cake and eating it too. People's want for yearning seems to mean they want the lack of obtaining their desires. And we don't yearn for regular stuff (water, a bike, nice shoes, etc.) we yearn for those things we place close to God and Spirits. We want to not obtain what we yearn for, and the things that we yearn for are so lofty as to not be seriously desired at all.
2026-10-21 00:23:37
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yaaavs :
I love that book!!!
2026-10-21 02:48:05
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yesimrat :
Oh hey I didn’t need to hear these beautiful words right now
2026-10-21 21:01:52
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Hunter Rapp :
My queen, please drop your top book recs for the yearners 🥀 I just read Eros the Bittersweet by Anne Carson, and felt so seen.
2026-10-21 04:05:49
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lantanawellness :
I love this take. So eloquently said
2026-10-30 20:12:26
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chantwba9pf :
"you can know people in some ways other people don't" this! this is deeply necessary for me. i want to uncover what is hidden
2026-10-26 13:28:47
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Seyf :
Reading Barthes hits differently when you’re missing someone you love. My wife @Ameerah Ben 🪷 is in the UK, and I find myself counting the days until January, when she comes back. Maybe love is exactly this: yearning, waiting, and finding someone’s presence in their absence
2026-10-21 10:52:19
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Drshatterhand :
Yearning is very complicated and involves a sense of maybe delayed gratification?
2026-10-22 10:15:43
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D :
Brilliant distinction. Thanks
2026-10-21 20:50:13
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Dawn :
Yearning is such a beautiful ache
2026-11-10 19:10:27
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PotatoSalad13 :
this is why married men act so weird
2026-10-21 00:07:40
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silverfox4206767 :
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2026-10-21 03:44:39
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Beatrice Viterbo 🌑 :
🖤🖤🖤
2026-10-21 04:10:46
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