i will be real i have a relaxer for my pixie and my hair went from wash day to wash 2-3 hours 😭😭 so a relaxer is in fact easier
2026-11-02 01:54:52
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Nicole Bush :
Omg 🙄now it’s anti black to say relaxed hair is less maintenance than natural hair?? Pls don’t pmo
2026-10-21 05:47:08
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🍉Kayla❤️ :
Mind you, a huge part of "wash day" culture and a "rite of passage" is literally being in pain for 109,781,982 days. This curly hair shit is HARD
2026-10-21 13:15:53
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Nicci J :
Been doing my hair since 7th grade. Went to locs cuz it’s cheaper and lower maintenance. Whoever says it’s the same is trippin.
2026-10-21 06:04:16
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Ben_owko :
Yea cuz Kyle is not touching the amount to effort and money Ive put into my hair on a daily basis and that’s okay
2026-10-21 05:34:40
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♱ ☠︎︎| Kabu |☠︎︎ ♱ :
had a lot of hair but bc i can’t do it myself beyond wash days (disabled) i had to cut it off and i really didn’t WANT to because i loved my hair, but i love my health more than
2026-10-21 22:13:23
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💜ⁿᵒ`ᵒⁿᵉ✮ :
as a white man it takes 30 seconds to wash my hair. maybe 2 minutes if you leave the conditioner in for a bit. calling it "wash day" is ridiculous. even if you dye your hair and use a hair mask thats only 20min to a couple hours depending on what it is. nowhere near the amount of time im assuming black hair requires.
2026-10-22 05:15:07
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thrillinadventuresabrina :
Isn’t having locs also lower effort?? Are they gonna call dreadlocks Anti black now too???
2026-10-30 03:38:16
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L.Menace :
Girl I DON’T retwist my shit either.
2026-10-31 02:03:53
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trooluhv :
And it’s such a ‘so you hate waffles’ statement. It’s so irritating to not be able to do something as a black person that doesn’t fit into someone else’s idea of what it is to be black. And way too many of these types of arguments start from people that don’t put two seconds of thought behind their words😐
2026-10-22 17:11:46
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nova :
even down to the the product oh my god 😭 i had hair down my back and it DRANK conditioner, i had to replace several products at least once a month or 6 weeks. i have 2 teaspoons of hair now and havent bought a new conditioner in like 6 months.
2026-10-21 06:06:59
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Bowshi12 :
Had a half foot afro before I got my locs. My wash days were 4+ hours out of my TWENTY FOUR. Id love to see a white person do that once a week.
2026-10-21 15:40:03
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Sana :
As a black girl who had a relaxer for 4 years it’s it lower maintenance than my natural hair but still took a lot of effort to maintain and to keep healthy. I think a relaxer is still more maintenance than most straight yt hair
2026-10-24 14:24:26
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ꕥ 𝒜𝓈𝒾𝒶 ꕥ :
I hate that we’re the only race that has to have this much discourse about our hair why can’t we just do wtf we wanna do with our hair bro natural or not
2026-10-30 15:30:54
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PTL 🏳️⚧️ 🦅 :
arms finna be sore, im tender headed af, and i move slow so its gonna take me foreverrr to do
2026-10-21 14:15:57
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Liv 🩷 :
i have to get treatments to make my hair more manageable because of my disabilities and my arms can’t do that anymore. I can’t do anything more than unbraid and detangle my hair. Everything else is done by a stylist because i PHYSICALLY CANT DO IT EVEN WITH THE TREATMENT
2026-10-25 13:59:42
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Robin ⦻ :
No bc washing my hair and getting that all done in a day can take a few hours 😭 if I want to style it same day ?? Girl I’ll be at it forever too. It’s especially exhausting when I get dizzy and have problems with my legs. Wash day is a whole process and I’ve made it easier for myself over time. Having a low maintenance style isn’t a problem, some people need that !! Using a relaxer is making it the easiest thing imaginable because it’s incredibly low effort for what you have to do to your hair
2026-10-28 19:26:41
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KAI :
It took me 6 years to find a routine and products that fits my hair takes me 2 hours to take my hair down in braids and it take me 4 hours to wash detangle and styling my hair 😩
2026-10-21 17:19:03
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Bird :
I just got a relaxer and I truthfully only got it because I'm too lazy to keep up with the maintenance of my natural hair and I'm too old to keep having my mom do it for me 😭
2026-10-21 15:03:23
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Kareen_KC :
Like I won’t pick EVERYTHING SHOWERS
2026-10-21 19:03:11
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G00DIE UNGR8TFUL TETHER 🇯🇲 ☭ :
Every single style choice I’ve made with my hair was completely to achieve a lowere maintenance style and shorten wash day which is why my hair is loc’d today 🥹
2026-10-22 02:38:17
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Bek 😛 :
locs be more work and upkeep during the summer goodness I wanna cut them every summer
2026-10-23 19:38:11
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anayladaviinci :
If I weren’t so scared, I’d loc my hair up rn 😭
2026-10-24 05:24:11
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asantae. :
I’m so tired of the “if it’s hard you’re not doing it right” bullshit. Between detangling and the wash and go’s and shit I’m tired. I literally loc’d my hair so I wouldn’t have to deal with my loose natural hair at uni in this setting
2026-10-21 20:55:25
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