@ralph.ayua: Your generosity can become toxic when entitlement becomes the order of the day

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Wednesday 21 October 2026 05:14:03 GMT
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poshuna
Poshuna🇨🇦 :
Even God isn’t that too generous
2026-10-21 07:24:47
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theneresanelson
Mrs~ E💍🇳🇬🇬🇧 :
I used to have a friend I did my best for. When she was pregnant, I was there through out but when it was time to give birth, her husband said he didn’t want me to be there because he didn’t want me to be “fooling” around according to him. I am a very jovial person so even when life gets serious, I try to joke around. That’s my coping mechanism. But during labor, she still called me that night because according to her, nobody will be there for her more than me. I drove her and the same husband to the hospital that night, stayed there till she gave birth the next day. I took food to her while she was there and also at home. I literally made her daughter my goddaughter and practically did everything I could. But on her daughter’s birthday, she gave a long speech appreciating everyone for honoring the daughter’s birthday, my name was never mentioned! That thing broke me. I left and never looked back….
2026-10-21 10:11:29
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wemmi3
Wemmie :
And that's why I stopped helping everyone Make everybody help demselves
2026-10-21 08:07:00
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babylo4
Rabi'a❤️ :
The most brutal truth I've heard and seen today!🫡
2026-10-21 07:20:45
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gracemirrorr
Grace❤️ :
I've stopped helping entitlement mentality people and I pray they wil not be able to bring me down in JESUS MIGHTY NAME AMEN
2026-10-21 09:02:00
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donald.chiemena
Donald Chiemena :
some people go think say na content
2026-10-21 08:05:16
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bles_jaycob
Nyiyongo Jay-cob :
Someone asked when last did you give me money?
2026-10-21 08:56:58
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mohshat_treats_cuisines
Mohshat_treats and cuisine :
almost all of us go through this, when you say no then you are a bad person again
2026-10-21 08:09:14
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iambigmode_fr
iambigmode_fr :
Why I stopped was she said why did you start what you know you won’t finish. And am like okay. Let’s have it
2026-10-21 06:57:21
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steelz108
Steelz :
This is 💯 correct, there’s this woman I normally help cos I saw her condition with kids, and d husband is trying too, but recently I just promised to give this woman something, only for her to text me the next morning, that how much am I planning to give her, that she wants to add it to what her husband will also give her, I just sent her something and blocked her off, now she has noticed and hardly even greets me whenever we meet, Idgaf tho
2026-10-21 08:31:10
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becca_dee3
Nonchalant Becca :
I hate ungrateful people!!!
2026-10-21 08:51:28
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senior_dort
Senior_D :
You can help people to the extent of becoming entitled. They even say "God blessed you so that you can help other people."
2026-10-21 07:04:39
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brainniumschool
Daniel :
toxic charity .
2026-10-21 06:27:19
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buysellp.com
Minna Homes & Properties :
How do you cut this kind of people off in ways they wouldn’t hurt you
2026-10-21 07:31:55
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lightbearer55
Light Bearer :
Thanks for this enlightenment. Toxic Generosity is real and a lot of us are guilty of it.
2026-10-21 06:40:11
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palisakazash
palisa :
my ex and his family got me to this they feel like I owe them
2026-10-21 07:06:38
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uddcfoods
uddc/foods :
I need to send this to someone 🙌🙌
2026-10-21 06:38:03
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userblessingtheresa
Blessingtheresa :
exactly what my boy friend is doing to me now.because I don't have enough now any little thing he insults and even tell me to get lost , dating for almost one year his one naira never enter my hands.
2026-10-21 08:21:04
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chinazaugwu972
🧠 Anatomy With Ruth :
That's my father's brother. The man really dealt with my dad to the extent of selling his car ,his land and still claim that it's his brother's property
2026-10-21 05:46:47
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modermancoach
@ModernManCoach :
so true
2026-10-21 05:21:07
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maame_odi
Maame_Odi :
This man is so learned… I’ve never regretted following you 👌🏽
2026-10-21 08:44:47
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bagsfavyprincess
@Samfavy Enterprises :
my mom but I don't care anymore because am not fool
2026-10-21 09:00:29
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blueb844
💚🍀Sadia🍀💚 :
Is true
2026-10-21 05:18:36
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joy.adwoa8
God will fight 4 me :
Sometimes its our fault. once we give people we draw them close. others use them. we give them money some give us their time. we expect them to bow to us. somd of us use them for our errrands. anytime we think if dirty jobs we think about them. rubbing money on their faces. i never quote any amount i give in public. they aint part of my social media friends to see what I post. even some men date the girls they are helping. they will never respect you
2026-10-21 09:30:21
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rachee4life
Rachee4life :
No be lie. But they cannot frustrate me o cos I go block their existence
2026-10-21 09:49:18
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