@dariusryankadem: For Theo to leave the toy shop without a fight, he needed three things. He needed to be done with the shop. Ten minutes of looking and touching, with nobody fighting him over every car, meant he wasn't holding on to anything by the end. He needed to know where he was going. "That's the Jeep" turned the pram into somewhere he could picture. And he needed a reason to want to go. The Jeep was his. Leaving stopped meaning losing the cars. All three were possible for one reason. I was clear before we walked in on what was acceptable and what wasn't. Nothing gets bought. Ten minutes, then we go. He got his time to explore, I got us out on time, and he could move freely inside that. When the ten minutes were up, I followed through and lifted him in. No fight. Most power struggles are a clash of needs. Yours and theirs. Set it up so both get met, and there's nothing left to fight about. If your toddler or preschooler battles you daily this is exactly how can help you deal witb inside my private parentingcommunity. Every kind of resistance. The price goes up this weekend. After that, this rate is gone for good. If you've been on the fence this is the time to join. Link bio.
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Wednesday 21 October 2026 13:00:49 GMT
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Léonard Rien :
Basically
2026-10-24 13:00:17
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mewo :
bro Just raise me at this point
2026-10-21 14:45:33
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Funke :
Have you tried reduced water privileges or short physical stimulation. That's what I usually do
2026-10-21 15:31:22
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axolot :
My mom always told me "we dont have enough money with us today, well buy it next time, okay?" and my little toddler brain was like okay and there was no tantrums or anything. Btw "next time" never came
2026-10-24 09:20:58
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Ek :
I’m not a dad , really interesting thought thanks
2026-10-21 13:17:58
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MC NIGHT CHANNEL :
Parenting ranked
2026-10-21 15:00:06
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T3rtey :
no better parent on tiktok, genuine inspiration
2026-10-21 13:19:04
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Pro father there
2026-10-21 14:58:40
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𝕰𝖑𝖑𝖆 𝖓𝖔𝖙 𝖇𝖔𝖍𐀔 :
"He's Loooose"
2026-10-25 02:58:02
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Mr_Pomelo :
So there are levels to parenting?
2026-10-26 01:26:33
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⃟ :
top tier spawn point
2026-10-25 01:42:16
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Farra :
Just buy him the toy bruh
2026-10-21 14:25:55
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that particular sharko :
top 10 dad
2026-10-21 13:53:36
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bebra_2014 :
4d chess vs child
2026-10-24 21:39:33
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Stratjo :
I'm gonna try my hardest to remember all of this incase I ever become a dad
2026-10-24 22:27:38
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SaucyPizzangina :
you should write a book for when he becomes a parent of his own
2026-10-21 15:50:23
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PaintsTheMoon :
you know, you are building great bloodline because of your parenting skills, and not just one by raising your own child, but many more because you share your experience with others, so more people would raise their children that way
I'm not native speaker, my message could sound weird, but I really like how cool you are as a parent
2026-10-21 15:02:46
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dirkfan41 :
watching these parenting videos is so relaxing
2026-10-22 09:01:05
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Verbena Nīhāra :
what u recommend doing when they hit you for no reason? cuz my niece keeps hitting me when I see her
2026-10-22 01:33:59
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gladonga :
when you set the limitations such as 10 mins in the shop and no toys bought, do you tell him that before you go in? or do u just have a personal goal?
2026-10-21 22:23:27
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miro :
you're an amazing father
2026-10-21 17:12:26
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Aaron Gary :
this is how dad's need to be prepared before they raise a child. really love your psychology, youre great dad!!!!!
2026-10-24 12:53:00
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Jdjd Jd :
Can I sponsor him one toy😂
2026-10-21 18:36:16
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Stinkybinky :
Or just grab the kid and move?
2026-10-24 12:23:40
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Rufñnaa :
what rank of parenting this?
2026-10-24 11:50:25
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