@humansofny: Hart Island is New York City's public cemetery and the final resting place for more than one million people buried in mass graves. Elsie Soto is the Director of Friends of Hart Island, a family-led initiative dedicated to honoring those buried on Hart Island and supporting their loved ones. Her organization works to challenge the stigma surrounding Hart Island, raise public awareness, and advocate for expanded visitation, improved transportation, and historic preservation. I’m very grateful for the time she spent with me.
Hey hun my ex works there and regardless of who or how they passed,the grounds are treated with so much love and respect. Some ppl buried there are also some who possibly died alone during covid and family are just locating them. Many still being found and taken to private cemeteries. It doesn't make anyone there less important. The only lesson I take from that grave site is that noone is better than anyone,at the time of our passing this is where we can all end up. May your loved ones rest in peace.
2026-10-22 00:40:13
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Jeanine1110 :
How do you get to Hart island
2026-10-22 00:43:58
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Deanna :
my dad also passed from AIDS in 1995. my family has him in a shared plot in rural PA with my uncle and grandma
my brother was murdered, I have his remains. I myself will likely wind up on Hart Island, or wherever they put me, there won't be anybody left to deal with my burial
2026-10-21 18:48:13
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Soamaezin :
I learned about this from Pose 😢
2026-10-21 19:26:44
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Kay :
I hate that their graves aren’t marked individually, but it is a beautiful resting place. It looks so peaceful. I’m so sorry for the loss of your brother and dad. 🫂 ♥️
2026-10-21 18:23:56
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Dan :
a lot of ppl who died early on from COVID are buried there too
2026-10-21 22:13:04
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✨Murphh✨ :
I think my grandpa is there but I don’t have any idea how to find out ):
2026-10-22 04:31:03
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⭐️ Shoshana Esther ⭐️ :
May their memory be a blessing. I wish you peace and comfort.
2026-10-21 17:52:38
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Katie Coo Cat she/her 🍉 :
Homelessness is so much closer to us than we realize. I am so sorry for your losses. ❤️❤️❤️❤️my son struggled and lost his battle on 7/13. ❤️❤️❤️
2026-10-21 17:44:49
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💄💋❤️ :
In a way at least they’re all together 🥰 Eveeyone buried there is not alone ❤️even though the history is very dark ❤️❤️❤️i know your dad and brother have so many friends there and they can’t wait to rejoice someday in heaven ❤️❤️❤️
2026-10-21 17:36:17
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KARRICA.CO :
Do they at last let you know which section they’re in?
2026-10-22 00:56:02
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Stacey Elaine :
My heart shattered when you approached your dad’s site and just obliterated when you then walked up to your brother. 💔
2026-10-21 19:29:03
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Joy :
Thank you for sharing. I can feel your pain , I’m so sorry. It’s a beautiful resting place… they are at peace now. God bless you
2026-10-21 15:36:56
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834748r :
Thank you for sharing this. This is truly such an important part of the history of New York and also the history of HIV/AIDS in this country. Thank you for speaking up on addiction stigma. It is so important. You are an angel on this earth. Your message will help so many people. 🫂
2026-10-21 17:25:15
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soph :
this is truly beautiful thank you for sharing
2026-10-21 15:51:51
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eileenp466 :
Thank you for that reminder. Everyone is someone's son, daughter, brother, sister or friend . This is why I carry Narcan in my purse everyday. I am happy to see that your family is together again as we all will be. 💗💗💗
2026-10-21 18:18:13
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Anna Garcia :
my condolances sis
2026-10-22 03:55:02
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CK :
I have a sibling with bipolar disorder and has self medicated in the past, my heart goes out to her ❤️
2026-10-21 18:14:25
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user5249063342869 :
Why doesn’t she move them and have them properly buried? Crazy she leaves them
2026-10-22 02:33:52
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lesliegran :
Thank you for sharing with us. I lost two brothers to overdoses and we’re blessed that they’re buried somewhere I could go visit. It’s really wonderful that you go visit them, but they’re with you in your heart.
2026-10-21 23:30:38
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Sandy :
Their spirits live on through you. Thank you for sharing a little bit about them. May they continue to rest in peace and may you find comfort that there are now other people who know and will think of them. 💛
2026-10-21 23:36:11
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user5627954449363 :
Addiction is not the fault of the user. Big pharma failed humans. It’s so horrible
2026-10-21 23:57:47
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wine.whisperer :
I'm sorry for your losses. respectfully, if you are their family member why are they buried there? I thought Hart Island was maily homeless and covid death burials.
2026-10-22 03:16:14
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Maybe: Victoria :
This is such a beautiful resting place
2026-10-22 00:22:38
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zoe :
May their memories be a blessing
2026-10-21 17:39:30
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