@meltmvp: He asked me for $6,000 in the spring. It was for his sister. But he didn’t start with the ask. He started 2 months earlier telling me about her. Then she got sick, and I asked how she was for weeks. A men who tells you a woman is sick and needs you, you help. That’s not naive. That’s what women do for each other. He knew that before he ever said her name. He built her for 2 months. It took 1 minute to say yes. Red Flag Authoritg. #romancescam #datingsafety #redflags #datingscam
If it was his sister, why didn’t he go get a loan to help his own family member? Why would he even think to ask his girlfriend for the money?
2026-10-28 23:46:58
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user6128117697090 :
Lesson #1…..just respond with the same….”oh my gosh, I was just gonna ask u to borrow 10k for my mom….” Just watch and see how fast the run 😂
2026-10-22 20:40:39
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Janelynn :
I could very easily say no to giving money to someone I've never met.
2026-10-22 18:53:03
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kataramama_ :
I would never date someone who didn’t have his own $6000
2026-10-22 07:43:10
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Miranda🦋Mar :
I have watched so many scammer stories on all the social media platforms and I have yet to understand or wrap my head around people giving money like this unbelievable.
2026-10-28 11:20:21
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upfuranythingfun :
Smart woman foolish choices. I would have never give any man any $$
2026-10-27 07:32:08
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Victoria L :
Even if they pressure you, it’s urgent. Calm yourself, really look at the situation, pose other alternatives and if they come up for reasons why it wouldn’t work, it’s a scam. Just say NO, no matter what scenario he throws at you. See how fast the relationship changes because of your decision
2026-10-30 19:57:25
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Cynthia :
No way. EVER! I do not give $1 to anyone.
2026-10-27 23:33:52
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Jen_H75 :
@Jen_H75: My ex’s first ask was before we even started dating while he was in Jamaica. That specific time, I said no. Years later, we’d embark on our relationship and the second ask was to help purchase appliances for “our” “future second” home in Jamaica.
2026-10-31 00:06:18
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lenayshaw :
DONT FALL FOR THIS SHIT THEY ACT LIKE THEY REALLY WANT TO CONECT...
2026-10-27 21:23:09
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MilostCinema :
Yes. His first ask for me was $5K for his non-profit for cancer survivors, then $10K to start over his photography career, then rent, then more.
2026-10-28 22:35:49
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debbie.ann109 :
Why didn’t he get a loan? Obviously not in a good financial place himself there is your first missed red flag!!!
2026-10-29 11:29:06
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Orsolya :
Question: How did he know that you had this kind of money to lend?
2026-10-28 19:56:24
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Nanette :
That was a huge red flag right there
2026-10-28 07:39:48
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barbaraplummerwei :
nope, it would not be a problem to say no absolutely not
2026-10-24 01:28:33
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Marjie Skarda :
I will never give a man one red cent whether I meet them online or in person. Nope!!
2026-10-28 02:04:32
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Mary O'Connor-Shaver :
First ask was a huge red flag - big time scammer.
2026-10-26 20:12:59
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Mary :
Absolutely not
2026-10-26 12:52:17
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Bad Glamma :
i’ve had men ask me for money when I was dating them, and that’s when they got kicked to the curb. Bye-bye.
2026-10-29 23:59:25
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jadeblackburn :
Couldn’t you drive him to the bank for a loan or get him a credit card application??? Come on
2026-10-27 20:52:24
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Greg Shannon :
You have a amazing heart to do that
2026-10-28 17:23:33
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user2412074080706 :
Nope, but he could ChatGPT the problem and give his sister the resulting list of strategies, resources and options for his sister to fix her problem. I’m sure her family and friends and the hospital social worker will figure it out.
2026-10-21 23:58:28
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joeafonso982 :
OMG! I would’ve given you the 6K and treated you like a queen
2026-10-27 10:34:31
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dolosang :
Do you not know that people can get help with their medical bills?
2026-10-29 08:24:14
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