Erika Grundon
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Wednesday 21 October 2026 17:16:38 GMT
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Owencnt :
THIS. As an avoidant I keep having to repeat myself and I can tell each time they only *hear* what they want to when I keep trying to communicate needing space. It's like a broken cycle and then I get triggered→ back to wanting to avoid everyone. How do I move forward with anxiously attached people as an avoidant?
2026-10-21 19:44:52
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sony_gee88 :
She said she needed space but refused to give me a timeline even though I kindly asked if she could give me one. We went a whole month without seeing each other. We were a little over 2 years together.
2026-10-21 17:38:56
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Megschristina :
‘I’m overwhelmed and need a minute’ is never ever heard [Tears of joy]. And I’m bipolar with the accompanying memory loss- I know I’m clear with my needs because I don’t have a choice anymore. Also- I’m overstimulated- and it’s a block for the night if it doesn’t stop. ✋ I do not take a beating to prove shit to anyone anymore. It’s been 11 years so it must work okay but I will not stay in a fight I know I need to exit for the day anymore to prove a thing to anyone. I shut down my own needs to keep everyone around me satisfied for years. As avoidants do
2026-10-22 03:45:53
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Scarlet Priestess🌹Rhiannon🌹 :
my avoidant has gotten brave about giving reassurance when he needs a lot if space, and I've gotten better at not taking it personally. Because of that, even when he's not able to tolerate physical closeness, we are able to enjoy activities together in moderation when he's struggling. It does work yall.
2026-10-21 20:18:13
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Dark👑+•+¢🗡️ :
They lie so much in this... You have no idea...
2026-10-21 17:37:21
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corkyshortney :
I feel like avoidants act like they communicate. but it's passive aggressive or they only communicate half the thought. if i say hey are you doing ok and he's says I'm fine just tired. sometimes that means I need space but other times it means I'm fine I'm just tired. if I take him at his word then he gets annoyed that I didn't realize he needed space. if I ask for clarification cuz he seems upset but his words contradict it, he gets mad i didn't believe him, that he was fine but now he is upset.
2026-10-22 01:24:52
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Megschristina :
A lot of people don’t trust their partner with their alone time- that’s the issue. If you can’t trust them to not go cheat every time? You gotta leave because they’re just a cheater not an avoidant- hope this helps. I’ll be doing the same thing I always do, in silence. That’s it
2026-10-22 03:54:14
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