Expressing hardships to be told “you got this!” Yeah, cause I have no choice
2026-10-21 19:49:25
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Vonnie Jo :
I hate being called “strong”.
2026-10-21 18:35:17
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selamieonwheat :
so my attention span is actually fine!
2026-10-21 17:25:11
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Mikayla Nogueira :
Wow thank you so much ❤️
2026-10-22 00:55:18
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Chan :
this is genuinely so eye-opening bc we’ve normalized applauding women for how gracefully they endure mistreatment rather than questioning why they’re being subjected to it in the first place. It honestly requires reflection bc even well intentioned people applauding resilience and grace reinforces the bullying & abuse happening in the first place
2026-10-21 19:18:41
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ObsidianGlam :
Such a thoughtful and beautiful tribute video💗
2026-10-21 17:37:13
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Dimplez :
Felt hard. There’s this quote that captures this feeling exactly, “I dream of never being called resilient again in my life. I’m exhausted by strength. I want support. I want softness. I want ease. I want to be amongst kin. Not patted on the back for how well I take a hit. Or for how many.”
Sending y’all love 🫶🏾
2026-10-21 17:56:42
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Beatbymookie :
This video and conversation is 10’s across the board!!! 👏🏾👏🏾
2026-10-21 18:08:32
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Kiana | Becoming Better :
Not far fetched at all. Why must we earn applause by suffering? Even worse, some of the people who “applaud” us in the end took part in our initial suffering.
2026-10-21 17:49:02
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Ken Kanekii 🩸 :
I see men online saying we not “ride or die” like our grandmothers and I can tell they’ve never actually spoken to their grandmothers
2026-10-21 19:13:12
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crazystylelady :
This video reminds me of a few years ago you were getting tagged so much in negativity in the name of “ Jackie is going to speak up for us” and “Jackie is our advocate “. With the core thought being Jackie can take it so let’s give it to her. That never sat with me well as an oldest daughter and a black woman.
2026-10-21 18:45:47
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Stephanie Reynolds :
Whenever you post anything, I'm always ready to hear 🙂↕️🙂↕️🙂↕️
2026-10-21 18:25:42
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Tamar :
This probably goes without saying, and is probably stating the obvious, but that doesn't mean it should be said. Your makeup is amazing ✨️. Just watching the process and transformation very inspirational
2026-10-22 04:48:56
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Positive vibes only :
It’s a trauma response..not being able to lean into softness
2026-10-22 04:56:32
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𝔑𝔞𝔫𝔞⭒✩⭒🪽 :
"Did you see what she did?" Like no, Im just enjoying myself and as soon as i turn off this phone she has nothing to do with my life . Let people live.
2026-10-22 04:04:41
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JoJo💫 :
I love all that you stand for —long time fan
2026-10-22 03:54:13
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Nadiii_boo :
You’re so right!
2026-10-21 20:46:07
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Stephanie Gail 2026 :
It's like ur life has to be messy and consistently painful and u have to 'endure' as a woman for people to like u 😭....The hate that Mikayla received for leaving her marriage and moving on when she realized things were not working out was so shocking to me.. She received soo much hate for not staying and "suffering" through it...Like people were spiralling and making think pieces cos she seemed happy after the separation😭... We didn't know what she went through behind closed door and the hate only reduced when she shared that she was suffering she just didn't share it... Do you know how crazy that is??? ....
2026-10-21 19:55:01
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Siobhän Zoë :
I’m tired of being told I’m resilient. When I’ve gone to someone at my weakest and they respond by reminding me that I’m strong.
2026-10-21 20:04:56
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Ryan Michelle Bathé :
I’m going to a party TONIGHT and I WISH I had time to practice this look! And pick up those products!!
2026-10-21 19:16:28
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Valerie :
Despite the treacherous things women have to deal with, especially in this day and age, it is such a privilege to be a woman and experience womanhood.😌 Love this! 🫶🏼
2026-10-21 17:26:17
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KP :
bell Hooks talks about this in “Ain’t I a Woman”; society expects Black women to labor and to be self-sacrificing. We’re expected to fight, to take hits, and to continue fighting. And we’re lauded for it. God forbid we want rest and space to simply exist.
2026-10-21 18:38:11
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goobiefloobie :
The fact that we have to even show up as likable, or the firing squad comes is insane to me.
2026-10-21 22:06:45
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Suzy :
Long time follower—appreciate your authenticity and how you celebrate others. That’s powerful. Excellent post.
2026-10-21 18:29:05
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fadhilitheone :
One time, I was hanging out with my coworkers, talking about how hard life in general was, and one of them said “oh Fadhili doesn’t need any help she is a strong independent woman” I never clapped back at a coworker so violently until that point 😭😭😭😭
2026-10-21 18:57:29
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