@professorneil: Maybe her boundaries have changed. Maybe she just doesn’t like you that much. Either way, just respect her boundaries and work within them.
him knowing her business when they aren't involved anymore is the exact reason she didn't want him knowing her business.
2026-10-21 18:32:59
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RcknPP7 :
Shivolry is d3ad
2026-10-21 18:48:30
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AwakeButDreaming :
“He knew for a fact” oh ya? How did he know that?
2026-10-21 21:06:23
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MjGanzevles :
How does he even know about the situation with another guy?
2026-10-21 20:23:36
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TheDyslexicKitchenwitch 🇪🇺 :
they do not HAVE to "make sense" men do not get to sit judgement over decisions we are free to make.
2026-10-21 18:30:52
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Tynnesdotter :
A boundary can be used to test the man. I will absolutely study how he reacts. If he doesn't respect my rule or tries to make me change my mind, he failed.
2026-10-22 06:14:07
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EVy Robichaud :
She may have known that guy for a little longer
2026-10-21 18:47:42
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Lu :
He’s the reason those boundaries exist
2026-10-21 20:42:38
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0000 :
fancy having boundaries with someone I don't know. silly me.
2026-10-21 19:27:32
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CrazyMadAlice🇨🇦 :
Ladies avoid boys who do not like boundaries
2026-10-21 22:30:43
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Cait 🇨🇦 :
The same people who will insist it’s your fault for getting SA’d because you “went to his house” or were “drunk at a party” will get angry when you don’t want to go to their house on the first date.
2026-10-21 19:17:43
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ibehagrid :
You can’t filter SOMEONE ELSE’S BOUNDARIES during your own internal logic. That makes no sense bc you don’t have to understand why someone else has the boundaries they have. You have to just respect them
2026-10-23 10:17:49
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Hex.Kitten :
The guy she is in a relationship with now also didn’t pick her up on the first date. He picks her up now. But not date one.
2026-10-21 19:05:58
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Levana :
there's this shocking concept where we have different boundaries with people based on how well we know them, and if somebody earns our trust we no longer need that boundary with that person.
2026-10-21 18:51:34
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ihbpfjastmne yne dmmky amai……. :
When I was 18 a guy picked me up for a date and then once I was in his car he said ‘you know what I’m not hungry’ then he took me to the woods and started touching me, I said stop and only after he almost fully removed my clothes did he stop, never letting a guy pick me up for a date again until I know him.
2026-10-23 13:01:35
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ActuallyImDelightful :
I had a guy last week pressure me into an early morning hike with his dog… when I said it wasn’t safe, he assumed I meant from animals and said that his dog would be there… I just unmatched him.
2026-10-22 12:30:15
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rurue :
How does he know?
2026-10-22 15:56:25
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Zara Cottons 🇦🇺 :
Imagine thinking boundaries require your approval?
2026-10-23 12:06:38
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Ellen Burklund :
New guy I'm chatting with said I'm not allowed at his house until he can get to know me. Like same sir, same 😂
2026-10-21 21:20:38
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Nina Mant 🇪🇺🪴🌈 :
I don't think him saying that he thinks a woman didn't consider him to be a safe person is the flex he thinks it is..
2026-10-22 11:46:54
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IamJaneDoe🇨🇭 :
I wouldn’t even meet him “at a location”
2026-10-21 20:23:22
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Diane A :
Not only is a meet up in public rule a good idea for a first date, I also advise going dutch on the first date so there’s no expectation of transactional sex. I justify it by saying it takes the pressure off so you can get to know someone. If a man insists on paying for the first date when the go dutch policy is explained, it may be a red flag.
2026-10-21 21:05:26
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Thresa Saenz :
What part of don’t get in the car with a stranger doesn’t make sense to him. I don’t believe any of these men when they say they don’t understand. They don’t care and they put down the women like they’re being ridiculous because it serves their purpose.
2026-10-21 21:00:36
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Samirah 🐞🇨🇦🇬🇾 :
If he doesn’t understand why a woman might want these boundaries, then he’s not ready to date women because he doesn’t understand women.
2026-10-22 12:31:41
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꧁♛ₑᵣᵢₖₐ ₙₑbᵤₗₐ♛꧂ :
every woman collectively facepalmed when he said not meeting in his car and meeting in public is a boundary
2026-10-22 12:11:33
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