@vibe_samurai: I came to praise my mother and accidentally audited my own definition of love. Yes, she worked endlessly for us. She was also hilarious, loved reading, could be a little spiteful, and had absolutely no policy against recreational farting. I knew those things. But it bothered me what came first. Name three things about your mother that aren’t about what she did for other people. What comes to mind? Inspired by Ana Beatriz Abreu’s Substack essay, “Os filhos admiram o sacrifício das mães. As filhas tentam escapar dele.” Credit: @_beanabreu. 🗣️ Need space to untangle your own thoughts? Book a Private Clarity Call, link in bio. 🎙️ More real conversations on the Vibe Sesh podcast, available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. #Motherhood #MothersAndSons #MothersAndDaughters #FamilyRelationships #VibeSamurai
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Aurora369! :
The son admires the sacrifice because he benefited from it, the daughter is appalled cz she often had to pay the price and deal with a resentful mother. Let that sink in
2026-10-21 20:47:20
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🍓Dianamita💣 :
they DON'T admire it..
they EXPECT it
2026-10-21 21:00:23
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Fatma thickie❤ :
men glamorize women's suffering
2026-10-22 02:15:39
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MeeMee :
Funny enough, mothers warn their daughters to not live like them
2026-10-22 00:53:02
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(✿ ◕‿◕) ᓄ✂╰U╯ :
Daughters are raised to become mothers and wives. Sons are raised to stay sons. They go from mommy taking care of them to a wife taking care of them.
2026-10-22 00:43:56
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_bae_ttie :
me increasing the volume near my brother
2026-10-22 05:52:23
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space.catto :
We really need to stop romanticising sacrifice yall.
2026-10-21 23:34:38
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Neko_3825_ :
Sons watched their moms suffer and expect us to suffer the same for them
2026-10-21 23:22:52
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idkyet :
A daughter was right next to her mother cooking and cleaning
2026-10-21 22:24:05
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The Mane Curl :
I became a mom at 9. Not because I got pregnant but because my parents decided to have another baby and expected me to be his “second mom” since I was going to be a wife one day and I needed the practice. My mom came up with that name for me. I’m happily unmarried and childless
2026-10-21 22:11:36
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Bel BB :
daughter look after mother when she is old, son is most often no where to be seen.
2026-10-21 21:36:30
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Zoraida :
I see both. That’s just one perspective.
2026-10-29 19:59:36
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laney707 :
Ask a man what he loves about his wife and he says the same stuff. Lists the way she’s his service provider
2026-10-21 21:51:15
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Bibi :
They see their mother as a their mother not as human or individual of her own.
2026-10-21 20:41:32
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Fa FFou :
I saw an horror story and my brothers saw the perfect wife/mother…
2026-10-21 21:37:56
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user28374832273 :
mich of this is becauze of the patriarchy… men will always benefit from
2026-10-29 19:27:24
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Ainur :
no, they don't admire it, they take it for granted, and expect other women to do the same
2026-10-22 09:12:55
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AB :
men see their sacrificial mothers as the standard, women see their sacrificial mothers as a warning. and that's where the difference lies
2026-10-29 17:48:07
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Jayla :
I hate that men think love is sacrifice. Love is consideration
2026-10-22 13:14:21
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j3ner1c :
I’m not sure many sons even RECOGNIZE the sacrifice tbh! It’s taken for granted which is much worse.
2026-10-21 20:53:23
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well guess what. my family consists of all male siblings so no. we are the one doing chores. our mother taught us that a man must be able to do everything by himself so there you go. we cook, clean, and takes care for ourselves. the thing i love my mother for is that she's very strict. so I'd say it is the way the kids are raised. i want my wife to do chores "with" me. to help me, not her doing it all "for" me.
2026-10-22 00:05:55
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MsShugg :
I love my mom, but no one could pay me enough to live the life she did. The only goal in my life is to make sure her that in her later years she's free and can live as she pleases
2026-10-24 09:52:03
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Misha :
My mom told me some traumatizing things that she went through in her life but she will never tell my brother those things
2026-10-21 21:29:48
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Bean :
It would be nice if they wanted to know more about the woman behind the 'mother'.
2026-10-21 19:35:42
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Jera :
Because boys know they’ll never have those same burdens, their wives will tho.
2026-10-22 01:42:08
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