@rachellamorte: Number 6 is most important! Link to Free Weekly Relationship Check in Template in bio! #relationshipadvice #relationshiptok ##relationshiphelp #relationshiptips #relationshipgoals
I've always remembered Esther Perel saying, "...most of us are going to have two or three significant, long-term relationships or marriages. Some of us are going to do it with the same person."
2026-10-22 02:07:46
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KP :
Shared humor and genuine care for each other is our foundation. We laugh hard and often together & it’s gotten us through so much.
2026-10-22 02:31:26
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User121484 :
It’s almost like it takes effort and commitment to grow with someone… and compromise to give and take.
2026-10-22 02:53:49
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Ryanne Fedak :
Thank you for saying this, I’ve been stuck on the side of TikTok where it’s all just saying basically I need to leave or end the relationship and it just doesn’t feel right. This has really helped. Bring me back to reality.
2026-10-22 01:57:19
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Paul Rizzo :
14 years and I have loved her more everyday.
2026-10-22 02:28:08
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teagan :
My sister said to me one time “it’s a privilege to love someone, and an even bigger privilege to build a life with someone.” I think about that a lot.
2026-10-22 04:33:18
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Zach :
My wife married a Christian Fundamentalist Republican. She is now married to a deconstructed agnostic leftist. 🤷♂️
2026-10-22 05:14:50
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loglady :
May long term love never find me.
2026-10-22 02:25:10
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Leona Smith :
He isnt abusive, doesn't yell/scream. But there is no attention/affection or companionship. He disappears all day/night without communicating. He rejects my attempts for couple time. Pretty sure he is an avoidant. These are acceptable points for couples who choose each other & want to grow. I want to grow with him but I am sure it will be without him.
2026-10-22 01:57:59
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amandajado :
I don’t know that I can trust someone to choose me again. I went through the seasons and stayed, he’s hitting his first season of falling out and he’s leaving.
2026-10-22 00:34:35
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Tamara Teal-Engleman :
30 years with my husband and this is so true.
2026-10-22 02:00:48
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marpar128 :
This is gorgeously stated and so important. Thank you!
2026-10-22 01:14:31
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briancallendar515 :
Communication is one of the most important factors in a healthy relationship. Clear, open, honest, and consistent communication keeps unspoken wants, needs, or desires from becoming premeditated resentment
2026-10-22 02:34:11
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these are so important especially the falling in and out of love and having to relearn the same person all over again and the fact that they arent guaranteed to be emotionally available to you 24/7.
2026-10-22 00:28:08
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whatchaooing :
#4 is so true
2026-10-22 08:06:25
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lilbo11 :
This is so well put! A little scary but 100% true.
2026-10-21 23:20:55
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ash 🌷🪐 :
Girl are you lexie grey
2026-10-22 02:21:48
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Jane Doe :
I don’t think you have to stay though just because it’s not awful or they’re not abusive. Sometimes it’s just time to go.
2026-10-22 02:23:50
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agentxrae :
#6 is so true and it took me forever to get to that. It’s about choosing to be kind and practice love.
2026-10-22 00:41:30
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melxverse :
may #1 never find me
2026-10-22 09:19:13
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Julie Gilmore :
So true, I’ve been with my husband 24yrs. Married 14 of them. There have been highs and lows. Times I felt that honeymoon stage like the beginning and times I wanted to off him 😂. Moments I know he needs space and vice versa, we can read each other and just know. I found a diamond in the rough, I know. But I feel people are just always looking for those sparks 100% of the time. Long term love is just being comfortable around each other in the silence and accepting one another for who you/they are without judgement.
2026-10-22 09:24:02
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user012345671234567 :
I feel like since I haven’t had good experiences with men my expectations are extremely high and no man will be able to ever meet them. 😬
2026-10-22 06:57:36
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mafosta :
why do I feel like I've heard someone else say this exact same list before?
2026-10-22 03:27:39
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kekegee28 :
This is good
2026-10-22 02:14:32
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h✨ :
this is way too real and true
2026-10-22 02:21:28
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