@coach.ryan0: The easiest way to avoid triggering them? Stop having feelings, needs, and a voice. 🙃 That’s not communication. That’s you shrinking yourself to keep them comfortable. If your relationship only works when you stay quiet, it isn’t working. #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalAvailability #KnowYourWorth
Why are they so nice to another people and protective and defensive when it comes to the people they like , and loving give another people attention.. but us to them we are the problem
2026-10-23 15:14:55
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DeeDeelove68 :
Exactly stay quiet until you end up hating him and want to leave ! That’s where I’m at right now
2026-10-22 01:24:54
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Thatotherliz :
Every time I try to discuss anything I’m starting a “fight”? 🤷🏻♀️😂🤦🏻♀️
2026-10-22 18:59:59
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lindsey :
He’s dismissive avoidant but doesn’t even respond… just stares at me like a deer in the headlights with zero response.. then walks away
2026-10-23 19:11:53
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billydoug :
Worst partners. Wish I wasn’t trapped with kids.
2026-10-22 13:33:57
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Nya :
I never want to fall in love with another avoidant in my life. He truly left me traumatized
2026-10-22 02:34:26
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cnytkyln :
Cut off all communication for 3 weeks; they will come back, begging, using all sorts of excuses—this is a proven fact based on experience.👍
2026-10-21 21:47:06
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Sally :
Too late. I completely went off on him. I lost my marbles. But I did leave him got an apartment and then one month later put a contract on a house. I’m starting to feel better because he’s not around and I’m not in his little town anymore. New chapter.
2026-10-22 00:08:49
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user3137402784197 :
FOR THE FINAL TIME ! This is great stuff but it’s like watching a film with no conclusion (what to do)
2026-10-22 15:38:50
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Carmen Pearson :
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂👏👏👏👏👏💯💯💯💯 Already there.
2026-10-23 15:07:46
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Isabel Mayor :
I wanna leave and now he's begging
2026-10-23 00:58:36
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Jamie Donovan :
“Nothing I ever do is good enough!!!”! So tired of hearing this.
2026-10-22 13:41:04
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Laurie :
It's never a good time to talk about what bothers you! "Why can't you just be happy with how things are"
2026-10-23 14:36:59
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Suz_💕 :
I kind of feel like after being with a dismissive avoidant for so many years and bringing stuff to them trying to connect, and they only got defensive dismissive, now I feel like I’ve become a dismissive avoidant because my nervous system has gone haywire and I can’t handle shit anymore. I keep questioning. Am I the dismissive avoidant am I the problem but I know it’s because I’ve been victimized by one and I’m not a victim, but my nervous system has fallen victim to one! The amount of mind games is unreal!😞
2026-10-22 01:47:20
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Richard CW Mason :
In other words don’t be honest !!
2026-10-23 08:46:24
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Perla.B :
Yesss!!! I have stopped communicating and sharing anything with him, he feels like we’re the best we’ve ever been. Meanwhile I’m completely checked out. DA are the worst.
2026-10-22 13:31:13
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T KELLAH ❌ :
there is no way to communicate anything.
2026-10-22 06:11:02
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user9025190641213 :
from 33 years experience.. correct... run.
2026-10-22 16:11:43
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Amydee :
Just be quiet and don’t have any feelings or emotions or problems. They can’t handle it
2026-10-22 02:23:04
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YouSeemTired :
Dont stay with them. RUN
2026-10-22 14:20:52
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EricaAnn513 :
Cut them off first. RUN fast and far and never look back!
2026-10-22 02:16:40
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Humbug2025 :
Don’t get involved with one to begin with.
2026-10-22 00:28:55
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JoyceL :
Avoid Dismissive Avoidants before they avoid YOU!
2026-10-21 22:58:10
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Gord Lavergne :
Just walk away because they are never going to change
2026-10-23 13:26:50
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Laurie :
I guess the lesson here is to NOT get involved with a dismissive avoidant. The problem is they sucker you in until it's too late!
2026-10-23 14:39:01
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