@kikiastorofficial: You might want to screenshot this for your next formal dinner party… Old money table manners are not about humiliating someone for reaching for the wrong glass. They’re about knowing the rules well enough to navigate a formal dinner without making a big issue of it. BMW etiquette tip: Bread plate on the left, main plate in the middle, water glass on the right. And darling, keep your hands to yourself. Consider this your guide to table manners, fine dining etiquette, formal dinner rules, and the little social codes that make navigating elegant company so much easier. And please, for the love of all that is civilized, resist the urge to attack people with your cutlery. If the person grabbed your bread plate, simply smile and say “may I use your bread plate? Mine seems to be otherwise occupied” paired with a gesture towards their plate (they will need a visual cue) and a sweet smile.

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Rebecca Lee :

Make the 👌 sign with your hands and it’s b &d for bread and drink

BoyanDash :

Just hearing you say "b*tch, your wrist" is sending me 😂

ctb6255 :

Some mild violence is always allowed—think of Empire! Just not move uncivilised, use the salad fork. 🍽️

EtiquettewithAdrianne :

Love the humor here!

CherryOnTop :

I know I am at a well trained establishment when the staff use the Open Hand Service Method

Nicky G :

A full swivel to the opposite guest 😏

TrailerBrat | Fantasy Cosplay :

I'm stabbing with the oyster fork, conveniently placed near my dominant right hand. 😅

Ri 🌺 :

I like the first acronym too 😁😁😁

Real Life Works (coat hanger) :

Is it the same in France?🇫🇷

Brettsprints :

That would have helped a lot in my front of house class

Tim :

My mom taught me “b” & “d”. Make the letter with your thumb and pointer finger forming an “o” Extend the rest of your fingers to see the letters representing bread and drink. 🥰

Bibi_NYC :

Do you have a cold?

melindagenitempo5 :

As the granddaughter always helping Mother or Grandmother I was helping with place settings, flowers , silver ,we have fucking tons of silver and horse and sailing silver too and maybe an Admirals cup and an Olympic medal anyway Poor table manners will have Grandpa slapping them with his cane !

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