@thehonestlovespace: single mums, how do you tell your new boyfriend that you have kids. I get ashamed to say it. sometimes I lie about it. is it normal or it's only me? #singlemum #singlemomsoftiktok #singleparent #momtok #datingasasinglemum
a boyfriend should be the last thing on your mind until your kids are older
2026-10-22 02:36:44
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Kassandra :
never be ashamed of your children if a man can't accept the fact that you have children then he is not a good fit
2026-10-21 23:09:26
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I always tell them first before anything else because as a single mother I don't have any time to waste for someone when we don't align with it or if they aren't okay with it to begin with. So always in the first conversation I always said that I have kids.
2026-10-22 09:22:00
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user1815348718373 :
Kids come first, that would be the first thing I tell him, he can take it or leave it😳
2026-10-22 01:17:01
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fyang :
never abandon your own flesh and blood , feelings will fade away and the connection between you and your kid will stay ... its a matter of acceptance ! if that person willing to be a part of you , he or she will accept everything about you. Im a single mum too , Ive introduced them directly that I have a kid that way he wont bother me ...
2026-10-22 08:18:16
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♈️TheUnbothered33 :
Kids shouldn’t have nothing to do with your personal relationship but u shouldn’t put anyone above them either
2026-10-22 08:27:19
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janity :
I wouldn't have a boyfriend without them knowing I have kids,my kids are part of me ,who ever knows me ,a friend or more will have to know that first ,I will never hide or be ashamed of my kids ,I work hard to raise my kids ,who ever comes isn't coming to provide for me but to love me and my kids and if he isn't capable of doing that ,he is not for me .
2026-10-22 08:12:40
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Sue Bryson :
It’s you. You should be proud of your children and no man is worth that
2026-10-21 23:19:35
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Carlotta Upshaw-David :
unless your ashamed of them your now partner should've been told at the BEGINNING of your relationship.
2026-10-22 03:11:23
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EHHarris47 :
Don’t ever deny your Children, if whomever you’re dating doesn’t like children is best to find out now.
2026-10-22 03:39:25
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moobarkmeow :
I would think if I had kids that would probably be in the top five sentences I ever spoke to anybody. Not because it defines me, but because it affects so many of the decisions that I make every day and any potential romantic partner would need to know that upfront so they can make informed decisions as well. It’s just common decency.
2026-10-22 02:23:21
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Kamal Palani :
Its best to put it out there. so yoh know if they will stay.
im a single dad, a whole different dynamic.
put your kids first and those who stay, will stay.
2026-10-21 23:16:45
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Very well put together :
you tell them the truth if he leave he is not for you because you and your kids arw a package
2026-10-22 01:32:32
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iseenevilhearedevil :
Hell he doesn’t need to know anything aside I have kids until I’m 💯 positive he a permanent part of my life
2026-10-22 02:04:15
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Smercado :
Plz don't let a man come in between you and the kids. Those are you children. Just be happy and grow with them. Stay drama free.
2026-10-21 23:18:33
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cagey09 :
Just don’t introduce kids to boy friends or girl friends till you know what that person is like! Never be ashamed of your children!
2026-10-21 23:30:24
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LisaFoodRecipes :
Ashamed to say you have children is crazy you’re children should be your pride and joy and if a man can’t accept you with your pride n joy he isn’t for you God isn’t Ashamed of us he loves us never be Ashamed
2026-10-22 02:59:34
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Melissa :
Straight up
2026-10-22 02:32:05
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🌜mystics shadowz62🌛 :
never be ashamed of being a mom the right man will come along who will love and respect you and your kids.
2026-10-22 01:45:09
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Just Peachy :
Kids are first I should never be ashamed
2026-10-22 02:02:30
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Ashanti Etwatwa :
just tell him the truth about how many kids you have and he will decide if he wants to date you. You and your kids are one package. Don't be ashame of having them because there are some men looking for a woman with kids because they love them but unfortunately do not have any. Concentrate on being the woman/mother your maker design you to be and that is to do right, love mercy and walk humble. Your children will learn by your example and possess those qualities too. Don't try to find him. He's to find you.
2026-10-22 00:11:42
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Pamela Fry :
Never be ashamed to say you have kids.Be thankful for them.My stepdad took on eight of us. I believe he was heaven sent to us.
2026-10-22 02:44:16
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Unlicenseddumplingtaster :
Get someone who also have kids and leave the singles alone.
2026-10-22 02:03:43
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IDontExist 🇨🇦 :
I tell every person I'm talking to on day one before it's even a relationship. That way if they aren't okay with it they can leave before any feelings are involved.
2026-10-22 02:13:55
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jahseh🖤 :
this is just weird how can you ever be ashamed of something you grew inside you and birthed especially for a man
2026-10-22 02:40:05
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