@sweetjeancollective: This is what I remember him looking like - Description: height around 5’ 8”, black curly hair in pony tail, tan skin, jeans and a t shirt/dark jacket over. Be safe! #stalker #safety #womenssafetymatters #defensivetactics
Yeah so I’m a previous employee of that crossroads and quit due to safety reasons. They know they are putting their employees and customers in harms way by not hiring a security guard and still refuse!
2026-10-22 01:12:31
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Alex :
who I am from costa Mesa
2026-10-25 05:20:19
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kim :
okay the last time I went to that crossroad I also had a bad experience that made me really uncomfortable I had to call my husband and be on the phone with him a while. that was like 2 yrs ago and now I only go to the Irvine crossroads.
2026-10-25 00:27:42
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alohasunshinee :
I shop at fashion Island quite often and one time I was by myself leaving Ralph Lauren and these two guys in their vehicle tried to talk to me and they figured out that I was alone as I was walking to my car so I felt scared and I went back to the Neiman Marcus area and called security and security. Walked me to my car. You never know who’s around you and watching you 😳😭😢 I don’t I don’t fucking trust people in this damn age. You never know what they’re gonna do and on top of that that you guys who were trying to talk to me while I was shopping they definitely did not look like they were from around here.
2026-10-24 05:32:28
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beep :
Can they fuck off like actually
2026-10-22 01:23:14
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Rocky" :
Thank you for bringing awareness to that incident!
I'm not sure if my situation may be similar, but I worked Security for the Camp in Costa Mesa for 2 and a half yrs, off of Bristol and Baker, and I was followed daily, by the same Men, I came to find out they were undercovers.
These Men are all over Costa Mesa.
They follow you, to the point of annoying you, specially if you're a good looking Woman, by yourself.
2026-10-22 04:18:36
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Kimberly :
I’ve been followed in Irvine, proceeded to leave the store and drive to another store in Tustin & the man followed me there too! I posted about it on the Irvine reddit and learned that so many other women have been followed around in OC before 😞
2026-10-22 03:14:16
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Julie Eyerman :
so scary 😳
2026-10-25 04:04:10
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destiny kuhle :
Tbh girl I give 0 shits if ppl start freaking me out I’ll start yelling what are you doing really loudly even if they don’t mean anything suspicious
2026-10-22 00:10:19
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meredith :
One time a guy told me he found it funny to stare at strange women in the parking lot. Haven’t spoken to him since but genuinely wonder if guys are that weird
2026-10-22 03:54:04
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Syd | Journalist & Author ✍🏼 :
That’s so scary!! This happened to a woman while I was shopping too, and she asked me to walk out to her car with her so she wasn’t alone. I’m glad you’re ok!!
2026-10-21 23:21:44
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nevapullnout :
Ig people can’t look at people
2026-10-24 11:05:40
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Yanny 🧿💚 :
there is a book called Gift of Fear. Listen to that voice ✨
2026-10-22 08:00:58
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Hannah Bookout :
Ugh I’m so sorry this happened to you. I’m so sick of people making us feel unsafe while alone doing normal everyday things
2026-10-22 02:01:10
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Bellajenn(Jenny)✨ :
The best thing you can do is call people out loudly. Drawing attention to them will scare them off l. Also let the store staff know.
2026-10-21 23:23:57
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urmom :
Make sure to not take the same route everytime. and if you think someone is following you. pull into a busy store
2026-10-22 03:46:41
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ashley | oc sahm :
That area of costa mesa is so sketchy 😣
2026-10-22 05:32:47
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lofe :
That’s wayyy too local for me 😭 I hope you’re okay please never let your guard down or try to be in a crowd of people always when u come across these interactions
2026-10-22 14:07:11
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Gomez Nancy :
Wait! I saw someone post on Nextdoor about a man doing this at the same shopping center. Be safe out there!!
2026-10-22 05:38:08
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Rat Beach 1972 :
My daughter was stalked there 20 years ago! Creepy people there. Also At Target
2026-10-22 20:53:29
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nat🎀 :
girl be careful pls, listen to your intuition always before it escalates. i say this from experience and i live not far from the area you’re talking about and i’ve had weird things go down there too💗 please stay safe and carry protection!
2026-10-22 23:40:17
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Stevie :
So glad you are safe my love ❤️
2026-10-23 19:07:33
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Johnisa :
The guy was impressed with your beauty he never to leave you.
2026-10-22 17:49:16
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Hana 🩰✨ :
Costa Mesa has a lot of this for some reason): I used to frequent Volcom skatepark and a guy by a similar description used to come just to peep on the women's restroom (the stalls are divided by a wall). He would also just record women there like a weirdo 😭
2026-10-23 15:11:40
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katie:) :
I was outside in the parking lot and the same guy was hovering around near me and just staring at me and I was getting super uncomfortable, he proceeded to put his hand down his pants and I bolted inside. (I didn’t have a car I couldn’t leave bc my bf dropped me off and I was waiting for him to come get me)
2026-10-24 00:06:38
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