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user1811103341268 :
Detachment means you no longer care about the outcome. which gives you peace
2026-10-22 04:50:23
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Jessica Shana :
None of us have anything to heal to deserve love. I truly hate hearing that! I’ve learned to detach from the outcome of finding love not because I wanted it to find me, but because it was controlling my life. That is the only benefit of detachment from my perspective.
2026-10-22 03:01:11
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c.a. :
Ugh the manifestation-OCD connection is so real
2026-10-22 04:39:27
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shanie :
you’re so right, it just happens when it happens.
2026-10-28 19:55:47
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BingoBangoBongo :
7-8 months are rookie numbers in this bracket. You gotta ACTUALLY DETACH
2026-10-22 04:43:51
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brie 🌞 :
girl not right now, come back in 30 minutes when i’m not anxious
2026-10-22 01:57:59
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me :
Love when people say “stop looking” as if they think we’re always looking lol. Like believe it or not sometimes we really are just living our life, not on the apps, not searching, just living our own life and it still doesn’t happen
2026-10-22 15:40:31
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Frankthepug :
People told me when I was 25 “They’ll come when you least expect it” well I’m 34 now and i haven’t expected it for years.
2026-10-22 05:58:25
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l.wren.wilson :
I completely agree with you. I genuinely hope everyone who is looking for love finds it, but I think we need to stop perpetuating the idea that love is some kind of reward for doing enough inner work, detaching, or simply not looking for it. The reality is that no one is guaranteed romantic love in this lifetime, no matter how much work they do on themselves. So much of it comes down to luck, timing, and two people choosing each other. And not finding it doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong.
2026-10-22 14:14:46
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Shadow Moon3967 :
Honestly most ppl are just together to not be alone not because they are in love. Once I realized that I stopped being AS jealous of ppl in relationships plus everyone's cheating now a days so do you really want it anyway idk
2026-10-22 06:20:31
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Miranda :
Being detached for over 5 years is so discouraging. I’m 41 and running outta time 😩😩😩
2026-10-22 07:18:32
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OatmealRaisin :
i detached and now i been single for 4 years
2026-10-22 03:06:39
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🗡 :
Love being single than being a gf who’s getting cheated on
2026-10-22 06:44:49
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diuvinitsy :
1st omg!?
2026-10-22 01:55:31
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Daniel :
expectations are so hard to manage. I thought id be married and have kids by now. when im 40, is it realistic to think ill be married with kids by then and hurt myself if im wrong? or not hope for that and try to accept now? im not wanting to be pessimistic but it would be nice if I knew how to align my expectations
2026-10-22 03:42:17
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tyra✨💐 :
To me and in our “kind” lol, it doesn’t matter what you do honestly. Nothing changes. I’m trying to figure how to be ok with aspect of my life never happening.
2026-10-24 05:28:09
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ButterflyKisses :
This came at the perfect time in my life. I needed to hear this.
2026-10-22 08:08:40
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lex 🪬 :
i’ve been detached for almost 4 years and i’m the most single i’ve been in my whole life lmao. i personally don’t believe that everyone finds someone. but i will say that being detached/neutral usually brings in my other manifestations!
2026-10-22 07:08:55
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juansirvent777 :
Same girl!!!! Same. I thought oh ok let me stop caring and i’ll get it… still single lol
2026-10-22 23:14:25
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Julia 🛋️ :
I detached (genuinely) but it took two years. 6 months after detaching is little nothing
2026-10-22 04:51:20
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Her Desk 🪐⋆｡°✩ :
i detached, and it was never to get a relationship. The way to get a relationship is to date constantly right? To get better at picking out the right guys, especially with the right dating practices.
2026-10-22 07:21:49
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mart__554 :
I think detachment helps to move on when things aren’t going as hoped, but unfortunately exposure is how you meet new people and adult life unfortunately requires that, things stop just happening randomly like in high school or college
2026-10-22 14:43:23
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Aldairion 🍉 :
"It'll happen when you least expect it," was like a Monkey's Paw. I had the most & best dating experiences during an 8-month stint of unemployment.
2026-10-22 15:43:01
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CitySnowLeopard :
6 years later and no one's come into my life. helooooooo
2026-10-23 02:20:56
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Kelly :
This!!! People, manifesting does NOT guarantee a relationship. Healing does NOT guarantee a relationship. Detaching doesn’t either. It’s all a bunch of BS unfortunately. Yes, you should work on yourself but you can also not and find a relationship.
2026-10-23 16:42:40
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