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It’s one of the most confusing feelings there is. The person who leaves you anxious, tense and second guessing yourself is somehow also the only person who can make that anxiety go away. People use the phrase trauma bond a lot, but at its heart it describes exactly this, being hurt and soothed by the same person, so that you end up chasing comfort from the very place the pain is coming from. A trauma bond tends to grow in relationships where someone uses emotional pressure to keep you close and keep their own needs met. It often starts small. You make plans of your own, maybe a night with people you love, and they feel threatened by it. Nobody tells you outright that you can’t go, but you come home to coldness, a sudden row, or days of being treated as if you’re invisible. Your body gets the message regardless. You’ve done something wrong, and doing it again isn’t safe. Over time you start shaping your life around avoiding those reactions, staying available, steering clear of anything that might set them off, gradually letting your independence shrink so they never have to sit with an uncomfortable feeling. When the silence or hostility comes, your nervous system treats it as a genuine threat and reaches for the usual responses. You might push back, but with someone emotionally manipulative that rarely ends well, because they’ll keep going until you give in or no longer know what you’re arguing about. You might pull away, but that tends to bring more of the same withdrawal. You might go still and numb, which changes nothing. So many people end up in a fourth response, which is fawning. You smooth things over, become more agreeable, work harder to please and bend your own behaviour out of shape just to get them back to a good place. And each time you do, the trauma bond tightens. You become more isolated, more dependent on their approval, and your body slowly learns that being apart from them is dangerous, even when your mind knows perfectly well that it isn’t. That’s why walking away from a trauma bond can feel almost impossible. It isn’t a lack of strength or sense. A trauma bond is a deeply conditioned survival response, and understanding it is often the first step towards loosening its grip on you Official accounts and resources: www.ellyanastasiades.com #traumabond #trauma #traumatized #traumas #traumainformed
It’s one of the most confusing feelings there is. The person who leaves you anxious, tense and second guessing yourself is somehow also the only person who can make that anxiety go away. People use the phrase trauma bond a lot, but at its heart it describes exactly this, being hurt and soothed by the same person, so that you end up chasing comfort from the very place the pain is coming from. A trauma bond tends to grow in relationships where someone uses emotional pressure to keep you close and keep their own needs met. It often starts small. You make plans of your own, maybe a night with people you love, and they feel threatened by it. Nobody tells you outright that you can’t go, but you come home to coldness, a sudden row, or days of being treated as if you’re invisible. Your body gets the message regardless. You’ve done something wrong, and doing it again isn’t safe. Over time you start shaping your life around avoiding those reactions, staying available, steering clear of anything that might set them off, gradually letting your independence shrink so they never have to sit with an uncomfortable feeling. When the silence or hostility comes, your nervous system treats it as a genuine threat and reaches for the usual responses. You might push back, but with someone emotionally manipulative that rarely ends well, because they’ll keep going until you give in or no longer know what you’re arguing about. You might pull away, but that tends to bring more of the same withdrawal. You might go still and numb, which changes nothing. So many people end up in a fourth response, which is fawning. You smooth things over, become more agreeable, work harder to please and bend your own behaviour out of shape just to get them back to a good place. And each time you do, the trauma bond tightens. You become more isolated, more dependent on their approval, and your body slowly learns that being apart from them is dangerous, even when your mind knows perfectly well that it isn’t. That’s why walking away from a trauma bond can feel almost impossible. It isn’t a lack of strength or sense. A trauma bond is a deeply conditioned survival response, and understanding it is often the first step towards loosening its grip on you Official accounts and resources: www.ellyanastasiades.com #traumabond #trauma #traumatized #traumas #traumainformed

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