@natalia.pitei12: Post grad series episode 1: confusion. If you’re also a fresh post grad, you aren’t alone❤️ #postgrad #postgradlife #grwmchitchat #advice #postgraddiaries

Onika :

Although i’m still in my second year of my uni degree, i relate so much to the confusion! I over worked myself all through high school and i graduated with honors but after that i found myself wanting to take a break and figure out what i truly want, but everyone told me not to take a gap year because “i’ll lose the rhythm” 🤦‍♀️i was a teen and so influenced by the adults in my life so i chose the uni i thought made sense the most; it was literally a 20min drive from home and their degree held weight in renown. My classes were way too easy compared to the work i had to do throughout highschool and i enjoyed that. It was my version of a gap year. But now im really regretting not listening to my intuition and pursue nursing😞 i can’t believe i let them convince me my whole life is gonna be wiping old people’s butts but here i am, 2 years into my degree and i’m still unsure of what path i should go. Do i drop out of my current uni and study nursing abroad or should i finish what i started and not waste any more years doubting. My degree is in business computing so i’m likely going to be working a corporate 9-5 job in the future (that is if ai left a job) and that was never my dream. I feel like thinking of it as a life choice is really what’s making me hit a wall cause i don’t wanna be doing the stupid move that i’m gonna regret my whole life😭

H :

As someone who did a lot of post-secondary, you probably burnt yourself out and that’s what caused you to turn away from wanting a 9-5. A taste of the freedom, while not sacrificing money, why would anyone choose the hard route over the fun route. What I will say is you have your entire life to figure it out. I took a break between my degrees and now that I’m done my second one I’m taking another break.

Viktoria54 :

I’m in a kinda similar situation I work a corporate job for 6 years and I am honestly so so sick of it it really messes with my mental health. So I’m currently trying to figure out what I want to do work wise in the future and this video really helps me to not feel so alone in this situation. To quit your “safe” job is truly so scary🥹

Mahima Rahman :

This is soooo REAAALLL!! I used to be the same!! Such a try-hard, applying early, knowing exactly what I wanted and by highschool😭 But I’ve realized everyone’s timeline is different and we’re allowed to slow down without feeling behind. My career goals did a complete 180 in my FOURTH year, which felt sooo late, but better late than never!! As a dancer myself, I’ve realized we can be academic weapons AND artists, or prioritize one over the other depending on when we understand what matters most to US. And honestly, I admire how driven you are in both academics and modelling. You’re doing better than you think, and life doesn’t always have to be a race 🤍🤍

lyfestylemama :

Definitely drop the school stuff. Do what you love! If it’s modeling and social media, make that your top priority just like school was to you. It’s always okay to change your mind as you grow, plus you’re making plenty of money and have a great work ethic!

Sophie barnes :

can we send you PR packages 📦

JMAN❤️ :

Love you so much and thank you for your honesty 🥰

Ranaleey Beauty✨ :

I have a very similar situation

Nilysha Johnson :

Girl your vision is NEVER unrealistic💗 You’re allowed to change your mind and pursue what genuinely makes you happy, even if it looks different than the life you originally planned. You deserve a life you’re excited to wake up to!☺️

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