@thevictorokafor: Parents & Comparison.

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thyewo
Thyewo :
my mama don use comparison turn all her children to each other's enemy finish
2026-10-22 12:48:03
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thesayrahedit
TheSayrahEdit :
Before you carry motivation His family is rich.
2026-10-23 14:15:10
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userdemdem1378_
demdem :
una guide na
2026-10-22 20:57:20
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missjane_doe
akunna :
I told my dad I wanted to be a librarian and he slapped me and called me useless
2026-10-22 16:45:15
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bibi_the_explorer
bibi_the_explorer :
I asked my 1st born who is in jss3 what he wants to be and he said he doesn’t know yet, I told him to take his time and look inward for something he loves doing, no pressure here. Hope I did the right thing?
2026-10-22 14:01:24
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keskid4
VDM cousin bro 😎 :
Even til now I never sabi want in I wan be ooo
2026-10-22 09:53:25
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bl_in_my_backyard
bl_in_my_backyard :
My mom never compared my elder brother and I with anyone or our selves but my dad the opposite compared us (between ourselves and others) so much that in Jss2 I compared him (to his face mind you) to my friend’s dad who he had been comparing me to.. I had said “oh really can you do what her father does to maintain grades (me: 8A’s and 3B’s. My friend: 10A’s and 1B) her father has money you don’t, he teaches and solves their assignment with them, have you ever sat down with me to do anything” my mom had scolded me but I felt satisfied at his expression of shock from that day he stopped the comparison.
2026-10-22 15:45:50
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nini.noh
Nini Noh✝️🥹🤲🔥 :
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Growing up in a family where no one believes anything good can come out of you
2026-10-22 14:53:29
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itz.pretty.fave
Danson’s Damsel 💜 :
I’ll be sitting for JAMB soon and I don’t know what I want to study. And I’m done with secondary school already.
2026-10-24 06:07:36
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itspajero_
Pajero :
Firstly, this is why parents need money first of all. Otherwise, Nigeria won’t allow you do all that.
2026-10-24 03:52:03
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emjo.exe
EMJO :
I'll do better for my children
2026-10-22 09:50:52
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bahmbahm8
Bambam💋🦋♉️♉️ :
U hv a grt mother
2026-10-22 09:53:38
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userhassan3534
user@HASSAN3534 :
avoid african parents dey go show you shege [Tears of joy][Tears of joy][Tears of joy]
2026-10-23 22:23:48
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ngwa6914
Ngwa :
they always compare us
2026-10-24 06:25:43
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ly_dia316
Lee🧠💫💅 :
I said I want to be a lawyer, my dad said he wouldn't pay for my fees so I just had to go to science. Later I said I want to be a Neurosurgeon, my parents said i cannot cope. My mum said, would I not marry. I was so pissed. Well I hope I become a Neurosurgeon
2026-10-23 22:19:06
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ewatomilola7566
MOTIRIREOLUWA🥰❤️ :
my mama no dey even compare me with my siblings na outsider😏i don tire and it is really affecting me fr
2026-10-24 09:11:17
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moon_28414
Moon :
They compared me a lot o, it still has an effect on me till now….I’ll be a different and better father ❤️❤️‍🩹
2026-10-22 10:04:20
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favourfinds17
Favour | Style & Growth :
We need to stop the comparison game
2026-10-22 11:40:23
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tomihonestly
Tomihonestly :
My son has been changing his career for the past 6 years of is life and I am ok with it😂 , A paramedics, astronaut, a firefighter we r here for now
2026-10-23 08:12:34
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_ucee06
_u_c.e.e_ :
Ehhh my mama like to compare ehn😒. I have 5 bank accounts, two years ago my mum saw one alert I forget to delete, she said it’s only 280k I have in my zenith. So I don’t have savings, that my younger sister probably has more savings than me. That was the last time I sent my sister any kind of money. I can’t be pouring from my bucket into an alleged ocean abeg.
2026-10-23 23:09:16
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dami_lola003
dami_lola🌚🌸 :
My kids will get the best version of Mom fr😭❤️
2026-10-22 22:32:25
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fifysgiftshop
Fify's gift shop :
As a first time parent, this is so eye opening! Thank you
2026-10-23 00:15:14
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colelyf2
Cole :
U lucky oo ..
2026-10-22 19:24:53
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ola_2810
ᎾℒᎯℂℋℐ 🫧✨🩷 :
I told my dad I want to be a female footballer my dad told me " don't say nonsense"
2026-10-23 05:29:28
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call_me_ray37
Raymond :
I kind of agree with the comment that said "una guide Na" I don't really know his family background so I may be wrong but the reason why rich families don't tend to mount pressure on their children so much is because their children can afford to make mistakes with the parents knowing with their resources that child can bounce back but for the average Nigerian that luxury is not there to give their child that level of freedom cause ok the chance the child doesn't sit up on their own there is hardly any chance for a bounce back
2026-10-23 05:34:18
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