@unhookedbyf: What happens when you finally stop chasing an avoidant? #avoidantattachmentstyle #anxiousattachment

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dem.arakawa
Demiraka :
So avoidants should be left alone ?
2026-10-24 13:37:26
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https..zyr
S 💟 :
I used to be an avoidant, but when I realized my partner was hurt by my action and the fact i was pushing him away made me feel bad for him. I start to change for him
2026-10-27 17:43:30
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bataa044
️ :
love bombing
2026-10-27 11:19:05
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madzz675
🦖 :
but man, i love her :(
2026-10-28 09:36:16
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verrcktr_
E=mc² ∴ ∞ :
I hate avoidants with all my heart and mind.
2026-10-27 09:22:02
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lena_enk
Lenchen :
i just miss him so much
2026-10-22 16:29:46
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pienacosi
eheh :
what happens is that life gets better without them
2026-10-22 14:35:49
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s4di_est
Signal :
it all hurts, I just don't know why I am an avoidant, I try my best to be there but it's so hard
2026-10-23 12:43:43
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lulu_notthere
LULU。☆∘˚˳°✧⑅ᵕ༚˖♡ :
i have an avoidant partner, I'm super clingy but I understand sometimes love can be overwhelming, suffocating even. so I took is slow, gave them space, but also checking in on them a few time a week, let them know you're there and available but not pushing them to get out of their comfort space for you
2026-10-27 13:57:37
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jxariu
Janelle :
Yes, avoidant is a psychological attachment, that’s true. But constantly hurting people - people you love - doing this, being aware of hurting them, not changing? That’s emotional immaturity
2026-10-29 19:21:55
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donttouchmeimscared2
✩•̩̩͙*˚ ᴴᴼᴺᴱʸᴮᴱᴱ ˚*•̩̩͙✩ :
they don’t deserve love
2026-10-29 17:18:10
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best3ptshooterr
best3ptshooterr :
watching this makes me feel so much better i dont know why…
2026-10-27 18:08:18
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jayz._20
jun :
been there , don’t recommend it . go find someone that have the same energy as yours .
2026-10-27 13:20:53
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r_raditya_h
piud esde :
dang, that's hurting me so bad I feel really guilty for how I’ve treated her—it’s been like a "push-pull" dynamic. Her reaches out to me every single day, and it’s become a bit suffocating, which is why I sometimes just disappear. But now, I feel bad about doing that to her. Should I send her a message to apologize? We aren’t together anymore—I actually told her to stop what her was doing—but I’ve never once apologized to him
2026-10-27 08:00:38
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hueskie_saki
Hueskie_Saki :
never date avoidant got it
2026-10-27 06:55:09
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rexbacojo
Rexou :
ts worked ngl
2026-11-02 17:53:22
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ijiikieru2
𝓘𝓙𝓘𝓘𝓚𝓘𝓔𝓡𝓤 :
...I see an anime reference"
2026-11-02 09:38:43
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gerorangensaft
gerorangensaft :
i miss her
2026-10-22 10:26:02
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ruyall23
ruyalll22 :
Don't do tactics in relationship. Do what they deserve and be the same person they meet
2026-10-27 03:47:19
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immovable.drei
Rumiri :
I'll stand on my ground, if you're not healed or still traumatized, DON'T ENTER IN RELATIONSHIP. prioritize yourself healing first, don't make your avoidant as an excuse to hurt someone.
2026-10-27 14:35:11
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toejamandbutterontoast
toe jam :
I can tell yall, being chased feels like being lassoed in and held, i just hate it, it feels like you’re expecting so many things of me. I just want someone to step back and let me approach them, take it chill, yk?
2026-10-27 18:19:03
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wouzang.yuo
wouzang yuo :
I'm avoidant, but I want to change by chasing her.
2026-10-28 12:31:23
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darin.63err
❄️ :
he came back now he is running after me
2026-10-23 20:43:36
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c4katsu
José Luis Paiva :
The avoidant is now watching my stories 😅
2026-10-22 20:24:39
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yukiki_here
˚ 𐙚 𝓨𝔂 𐙚 ˚ :
guys my gf reposted this am i gonna be okay?
2026-10-24 19:51:47
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