I had great experiences with men, but they all felt performative. connecting with women feels like unmasking. This feels... honest. and it was eye opening and freeing.
2026-10-22 20:08:19
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sluttymadscientist :
I am bisexual. I have had really bad experiences with men and women. Gender doesn’t make someone a good or a bad partner, their morals and character do.
2026-10-22 19:26:48
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Kerosene 🌈 :
It’s like all the puzzle pieces that made me wonder what was wrong with me that I couldn’t make a relationship with a man work finally clicked into place. And then I was grieving the life I felt like I should’ve had if I would’ve known sooner.
2026-10-22 17:47:31
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Vic :
I’ve had so many boyfriends before but it just clicked after I was with my first woman. The care, the psychological safety, the mutual everything. I cried for a week straight realizing that this is how it’s supposed to feel being with someone
2026-11-05 23:25:36
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Jamie Bruster 😋 :
I cried after sex heavily with my wife when we were dating. It was good. It felt like how sex was supposed to be finally in my life.
2026-10-22 19:49:11
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user2626002194261 :
the crying is 100% valid. I did too
2026-10-22 16:29:44
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Mae :
This is so validating! Being a lesbian never crossed my mind until I kissed a woman! I just thought that sex before was pretty okay and good until I had sex with a woman and it was amazing.
2026-10-22 23:30:26
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Myesha :
I'm bisexual and the best sex I've ever had has come from a woman. The men were good but the women were AMAZING!!!
2026-10-23 14:03:50
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itskiki943 :
How do y’all even find women to be intimate with, no matter where I go I’m surrounded by straight people 😭😭😭
2026-10-31 05:18:13
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ChristinaRayh77 :
I realized this year that the only time I’ve ever been comfortable with men was when I was drinking😅 like….how on earth did I never realize that’s a problem…
2026-10-22 21:18:50
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flora 🪻 working + sport dog :
omg I cried the entire drive home after my first lesbian kiss
2026-10-22 21:02:07
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Láska :
I don’t identify with my past patriarchal performances any more 😅
2026-10-30 15:21:52
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✨☀️ Jo 🌙 ✨ :
my first mutual sexual experience with a woman was with the woman who became my first ever girlfriend (romantically), and it completely changed my life for the better. I know it’s cliche to say, but it truly felt magical to me
2026-10-22 20:06:31
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Amberlee Piercy :
I had a lot of boyfriends that I never emotionally or physically connected with. The majority of my relationships with men (even marriage and children) ended after 2.5 years. I always felt like it was wrong and something was missing. Now with women I feel for the first time that my mind is quiet, my nervous system is calm and I feel complete with my wife.
2026-10-22 16:28:12
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Sdawg :
sounds like a healing experience
2026-10-23 09:28:04
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Shannon McGarry :
Yes to all of this. Tears of relief and confusion and fear for my future. Now I’m married to an amazing woman and it all makes sense
2026-10-22 18:24:23
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curiosbusyx83 :
i'm just still nervous about sleeping with another woman for the first time in my late twenties not having a clue what i'm doing and looking silly
2026-10-29 20:58:43
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🌙🐈⬛not.even.kitten🐈⬛🌙 :
I was just thinking about how the first time I fell in love with a woman, I cried so much not because I was sad, but because I had never felt such intense feelings for someone and had to let them out🤣 like i’m not sad, i’m just overwhelmed with joy
2026-10-22 22:40:56
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Shenea|Beauty + Fashion :
Being intimate with a woman for the first time altered something in my brain, in the most amazing way ever! When I was with men, I was faking it, and disassociating. It wasn’t until I was with a woman that I knew what great sex, intimacy and passion was. With men, sex feels like it’s something they’re “doing to you” and feels gross in my opinion. Complete opposite with a woman 🥰
2026-10-23 17:13:28
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curlytopmorgan💎🧿 :
I can definitely relate!! Glad I’m not alone. I felt so comfortable & giddy afterwards with a woman I couldn’t stop thinking about it, but with men I just felt used and gross. This past year has really made me realize I’m not bisexual.
2026-10-22 19:51:46
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laurathesoloexplorer :
Real but I’ve also had amazing experiences with men too tbh🤷🏾♀️but heavy on “out of control” in terms of the crying
2026-10-28 21:04:12
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Sunshinemama :
Samee. I left my husband of 15 years, divorced him last month, and been with a woman and was absolutely mind blown as to how normal, safe, intimate, and beautiful it was and continues to be. Im literally mad bc I thought I was having good sex in my marriage. HA.
2026-10-23 04:25:11
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yasohkvweqc :
It was like opening the black out curtains in a hotel room [Red heart][Heartwarming]
2026-10-22 19:18:01
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