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Gabriel :
Why would this apply only to men?
2026-10-22 18:32:26
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The_Hip_Barista🍉 :
I’m gonna just continue keeping to myself
2026-10-22 17:44:42
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ChefWannaBe :
Fellas. This is what your Dad should have told you when you were a teenager . Get your life in order. This way you can walk away from girls who don’t align with you and find the relationship that you deserve. Thx Erica.
2026-10-22 18:22:08
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Banas R :
what about women? Anything they need to have down?
2026-10-23 10:35:47
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Infrastructure :
I think everyone should have these traits not just men
2026-10-22 18:42:07
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gkeep42 :
I think those are exactly the same qualities that women should have before dating men.
2026-10-22 18:19:12
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Rack_Mctrapis :
I think I have two out of three. Integrity, my perspective is that I’m honest and loyal. I’m empathetic and value the people I care about. That dictates how I treat them. Wholeness, I’ve spent the last 2 years doing the hard work to regulate my emotions, get and stay sober, learn who I actually am. I’m much more consistent, mindful and happy. As for direction? I don’t really have goals. I own my own home but it’s small and in a bad neighborhood. I don’t have plans for remodeling or selling. I don’t have plans for my future. I just kind of exist right now.
2026-10-22 19:28:20
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jellyjoestar :
NO THANK YOU I will be single.
2026-10-22 18:12:55
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Fade :
After watching this video I still realise that I have a lot of work to do on myself especially the 2nd quality
2026-10-22 16:48:49
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jason tack :
More guys need to hear this kinda info, takes many a long time to realise these sorts of things.
2026-10-22 17:06:56
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kot_begemotbk :
the idea that you have to be near-perfect, with almost no doubts or insecurities, to form an entry level relationship is... something
2026-10-22 18:48:42
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Dal2kMS :
The thing is when I was 18,19,20,21,22,23,24,25,26 I had none or barely any of those things. Yet I had ten times more success with women. I had one 4 year relationship and another couple of shorter relationships during that time. I see plenty of men with zero integrity jumping from one girl to the next.
2026-10-22 18:14:20
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Lance@ :
Good points, and honestly working on all 3 within myself Have good one
2026-10-24 04:03:41
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Taylor Lol :
autism and all the mental struggles I have make the last two really hard but I'm always trying to improve. I'll never be ideal, but I hope I'll be in a position to make someone happy someday
2026-10-22 19:51:33
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🍝 spaghetti 🍝 :
The behaviors sure, but the insecurities often comes from neglect or lack of intimacy or attention.
2026-10-22 18:49:32
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Josh Klutch :
I just recently got out of a long term relationship myself earlier this year. I know damn well I've gotta lot of growing to do with myself before I can hop into ANYTHING ELSE real serious again. I'm a big work in progress atm, and I ain't abouta dump any of that onto another chick just cause I get lonely with myself at times.
2026-10-22 18:30:36
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Elijah :
After listening to this video. I truly need to work on all 3 things in my life to be in a healthy relationship.
2026-10-22 19:02:12
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Fifteen Two🃏 :
oh hi
2026-10-22 17:50:01
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mvp.hudson :
I have all 3
2026-10-22 18:40:32
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thedudethatmadeyoumad :
I agree with the purpose one so much. That’s not to say a woman won’t stay with you if you don’t have that but it takes a heavy toll. Same thing with the insecurities. She doesn’t mean be perfect she means having overcame your insecurities to where you can manage them and not offload them on your partner all the time.
2026-10-22 18:55:11
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bigboy30 :
Thanks Harse Sister Very Elegantly explained.
2026-10-22 17:34:19
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mvp.hudson :
I have all 3 and still don’t have a relationship and never have
2026-10-22 18:40:48
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user1318242511547466 :
Most people don’t really own where they’re going. Many people tell themselves that they do know but in reality everyone is guessing and flying blind. Do these rules work in reverse or is it cute for girls to be 31 with no direction or purpose?
2026-10-22 18:50:30
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Nick Hewett :
‘Thank you’ 🤣🤣
2026-10-23 01:11:00
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doc :
just reinforced never ever talking to anyone until its my last day or im healed
2026-10-22 19:03:10
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