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2026-10-22 19:38:24
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Vanessa V :
But how?! Especially when I have kids of my own. All around the same age. What exactly should I not be caring about?? lol how do I have expectations of my own kids but not my step kids?
2026-10-22 22:05:06
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Bri Rojas :
Okay but how does one stop caring 😅
2026-10-22 19:52:55
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🌷🌸Yolanda Benavidez 🌸🌷 :
Not my circus not my monkeys! 12 years and I’ve learned a lot!
2026-11-02 21:32:23
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☀︎₊⋆ 𝕍 ⋆⁺☀︎ :
Ok but what about the big shit? Like how they turn out as an adult? Cause I'm #worried 😅
2026-10-22 23:23:40
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Briana :
4 yrs in and yesssss im agreeeeee and im tryin I really am
2026-10-22 18:25:44
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k :
I have 3 step kids. I’ve never cared 😂I just act like a fun aunt. I don’t clean, cook, drive or do anything. I go to Pilates gym and work late when they come.
2026-10-27 14:28:29
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Sarah C :
My budget cares about all the missing things 😅
2026-10-23 19:45:34
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whatthehelliberry7 :
Do I stop caring about the laziness?.. because that’s the part that drives me insane I like my house CLEAN and expect my children to do the bare minimum & clean up after themselves and have respect & omg it’s lacking!
2026-10-24 18:59:29
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Christina Thompson :
The small things, yes. But the caliber of care for the child being drastically different is hard to just not care lol
2026-10-22 19:40:55
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Nadia :
So so true!! There’s times where I just have to stop and remind myself, who cares. At the end of the day he’s technically not mine not my problem. It sounds harsh but it’s the reality.
2026-10-22 21:05:38
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Allison Fulton :
16 years in and yes. Stop caring about it all. Love the child. That’s all you can do.
2026-10-22 20:07:46
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ortizruth515 :
I stepped back and let daddy handle it 🤷🏻♀️im not stressing my self anymore
2026-10-23 00:08:50
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ℒ𝒶𝓊𝓇ℯ𝓃 ℒℴ𝓅ℯ𝓏🤍 :
Agree! Stop taking everything so personal!
2026-10-22 18:48:28
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Katie Cox 🦋 :
Been a step mom for almost 6 years now and I’ve just now gotten to this point and it makes this role SO much easier
2026-10-22 18:09:21
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Jackie :
lol I’ve never cared as a step parent with any of this PERIOD
2026-10-22 20:19:17
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Nicole :
I need to do this with the clothes situation 😅😅 need to let it go. I just don’t know what to do when they have no clothes here though.
2026-10-22 19:03:47
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Christina Sanchez :
What im struggling with is every trip we go on their mother takes what they share and turns them into incidents. I dont want to take them anywhere anymore. Im exhausted trying to defend our home.
2026-10-22 19:46:18
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Chris101_ :
trying not to care so much so I can survive! lol it's HARD
2026-10-25 18:28:06
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Mermaid🧜♀️ :
I am trying very hard this year to just worry about me. Using the LET THEM theory. NOT MY MONKEY NOT MY PROBLEM. Letting dad handle his responsibilities. Just clean up after yourself. It’s hard to “not care” while the kid is here full time with a deadbeat mom and a working seven days a week dad.
2026-10-23 04:17:13
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⚡️_Coco_⚡️ :
I think I will always care about the clothes. Especially the more expensive clothes. Everything else I’ve slowly stopped caring.
2026-10-30 15:42:40
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Cady :
Your home? Your boundaries? Your peace? Your holiday plans with your family? Your dinner times not being interrupted? Your spouse not being verbally abused?
2026-11-01 02:47:33
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67283b2jdueu :
stop caring and STOP offering yourself as a solution to their problems.
2026-10-23 03:57:25
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Kaiyourfavorite :
I be caring too much fr! I need to stop
2026-11-01 14:51:11
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