@its.giving.podcast: What’s wrong with putting family first?! This goes back to moving in alignment with what you want, not drifting through life! But y’all let me know what it’s giving in the comments 👉🏽 #itsgivingpodcast #itsgiving #relationshiptalk #beintentional #dating101
Why have children if you’re not going to put them first?
2026-10-22 22:18:13
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Lamont R :
What if the husband said “ I just don’t want to provide “ I want to be known for something else
2026-10-22 20:02:47
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Kiki :
I think they are having two different conversations. Sarah just got married last year( a little late in life) which is fine and she also doesn’t have children. I think we often have opinions on situations we have no experience in and think we have all the answers! You will not and do not! What makes one woman feel complete may not work for another🙄
2026-10-22 20:34:30
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Originalgersh :
SPEAK THAT TRUTH, SARAH!
2026-11-02 22:38:28
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Mara Maria :
does the camera ever goes to the person she's talking to😅
2026-10-23 13:55:51
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AcheeDanyelle :
Oh yall a hate me lol if you think I’m spending all my life being only a mom and wife yall crazy asl 🤣
2026-10-22 23:43:51
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That one homemaking mama :
I'm not sorry for this, but I'm a SAHM, and a wife... best thing I've ever done. I get more recognition for what I do from my own family that anyone else! I don't need anyone else to recognize me.
2026-10-22 21:40:05
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Vic 💋 :
My sister married her high school sweetheart and had three kids and centered her life around that. Now she is a married single mom and very unhappy.
2026-10-22 23:29:06
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SPVoffical :
“Husband and kids are cool” that’s crazy
2026-10-22 19:00:53
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Paradoxfox :
Too young or too old we never win
2026-10-22 18:32:12
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AllBeautyKims :
As a mother who has been with the same man for 16 years and love my family I also feel like we need to respect those women who don’t want children or want to just be all about themselves 🤷🏻♀️
2026-10-22 23:25:10
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VJSunshine :
Preach sister!!
2026-11-01 19:21:01
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CIPt4 :
having productive kids that you care for for 20yrs,each, is a HUGE flex
2026-10-22 20:22:18
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Daamn_Gina :
We should have our identity outside of marriage and being a mom. Being a wife and a mom shouldn’t be your entire world.
2026-10-22 23:08:20
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keyleepage8 :
Life happens regardless of marriage or not. I know women who were married and still ended up single parents after their spouse died untimely deaths. Marriage is not always the end all be all
2026-10-22 19:11:51
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user2449977533200 :
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 i got my career, three degrees, traveled the world.. but what i want most is to start my family with my husband. It’s called balance
2026-10-23 02:47:56
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NateYOUthebest :
Every time Sarah pop up on my fyp
2026-10-24 07:28:53
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T :
What would happen if we just let people decide how they want their own life projectory to go without placing judgements on those choices? Because different strokes for different folks.
2026-10-23 01:44:27
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Call Me Auntie :
This a damn lie. I’m 35 n feel like her with no kids. Put yourself First Ladies!
2026-10-23 11:55:58
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Mel & Dre :
There are plenty single moms that raise their kids and still have goals they reach and careers they're proud of.
2026-10-22 23:24:17
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Tony Ton Ton :
she speak so much truth
2026-10-22 19:01:37
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Elle Kay :
I think they both have valid points. In college, I took a psychology of women course, and I remember discussing interviews with women who had taken different paths. Some pursued careers, some were stay-at-home mothers involved in fundraising or community activities, and others had put personal goals on hold to raise their families.
What stayed with me was the importance of having a sense of identity and fulfillment alongside being a spouse or parent. That can come from a career, community involvement, personal interests, or caregiving itself. I also remember discussing how some mothers struggled to redefine their roles as their children grew older and became more independent.
I wouldn’t conclude from that discussion that working women have more successful marriages or that stay-at-home mothers are more likely to divorce. My takeaway is that wanting a family and wanting to pursue personal goals can both be true. Neither path automatically guarantees fulfillment, and being accomplished is not limited to having a career. What matters is being intentional about what you want and allowing yourself to revisit those choices as life changes, rather than simply letting life happen.
2026-10-22 22:40:13
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thevanessairene_ :
I fear you’re not understanding what she’s saying, you’re bringing in separate problems from her problem.
2026-10-22 23:37:49
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Keith Bell2195 :
They are hardheaded !!
2026-10-22 20:06:59
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jwetjefe :
Yup life is hard. Choosing to be a single parent is even harder.
2026-10-22 19:01:16
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