Omg is that how they view it, I thought we was bonding
2026-10-23 02:43:27
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Earf Deep :
you was supposed to be like..." oh yeah what place was it?" .... " oh ok I haven't been there yet etc. etc. " .... " I have been to this one place..." and so it goes! mind you I'm like that as well I wanna let it be known I relate in the most relatable way ( experience ) but like you said they always viewers themselves as " up against " somethin or somebody
2026-10-23 13:20:52
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𝓜🧘♀️ :
I once learned your supposed to ask two questions then relate 🧘♀️
2026-10-22 19:21:54
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Thenursewithtattoos :
You’re supposed to say “that’s crazy”
2026-10-22 22:18:47
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hippieforresistance :
This is why I don’t even talk to people anymore. Too many rules
2026-10-22 21:42:55
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Xzashia 🩷 :
Neurotypical folks are so damn strict
2026-10-22 19:23:46
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🪐✨ :
It’s exhausting talking to them.
2026-10-22 20:02:12
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Doogey :
I thought doing this just showed them i was listening 😭
2026-10-22 19:58:11
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bumblebee_Tarot 🐝 :
they view EVERYTHING as a competition its so exhausting 😭
2026-10-23 02:54:28
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jay :
Imma just hit this from now on
2026-10-22 19:53:08
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pomegranateprincess :
talking to them is so fucking exhausting, like what am I supposed to say? god
2026-10-22 19:03:57
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Shannon Nicole Mays :
Omg. 🤯 This is good! Might be life changing
2026-10-23 13:27:44
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🗽𝙅𝙤𝙧𝙙𝙖𝙣🇩🇴 :
It’s either “why do you have to make it about you, you’re centering yourself” OR Jumping in to finish a sentence, & adding a parallel thought “Stop Interrupting Me” I’m like you know what? I’m good 😭😭😭
2026-10-23 13:13:59
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its_jst_sasha :
It’s not rude you’re just supposed to say something like that ”oh that’s cool!” first and then you could ask a question about it and then you can tell your thing. But it comes off rude to not acknowledge what they said at all cause then it sounds like you’re not listening.
2026-10-23 12:30:54
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Dizzy Monique :
Exactly why I no longer talk to people. I’m trying to connect and you think I’m trying to compete. Exhausting!
2026-10-23 13:21:30
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Hayley🍉 :
People find me genuinely selfish for answering back with a similar experience, I AM JUST TRYING TO RELATE IM SORRY THATS HOW MY BRAIN WORKS-
2026-10-23 13:27:28
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allison <3 :
what else am i supposed to say??
2026-10-22 18:05:39
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Marquettarealestate757 :
I’m so neurodivergent that I’ve mastered this mask…there is a method to it…you have to respond to their statement first like “oh what kind of pizza did you get? Did you like it” after they answer THEN you can share your experience. You are welcome [Cool]
2026-10-23 04:36:26
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Lish :
My husband says I just want to make everything about myself and I’m like no I’m just trying to connect.
2026-10-22 23:09:31
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hoshea :
acknowledge their experience first, then offer anecdote to relate
2026-10-22 20:45:23
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Nyla 🦄 :
If you don’t offer your side I’m gonna assume you don’t give a crap ab what I’m telling you 😭
2026-10-22 19:27:10
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Jmoolahh :
😂😂😂😂😂😂Its not about one upping. It feels like you’re changing the subject or not listening!!!
2026-10-22 22:31:11
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B_A :
the safest is to just ask questions. they wanna talk about themselves anyway
2026-10-22 23:29:27
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catholic.longinus0 :
bro i do this almost every conversation…
2026-10-22 20:28:14
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