@swole21: #conversation #ladiesoftiktok #nashville #ladiesoftiktok #over40

rlocklear75 :

I would be like dang you in the same boat as me. How am I going to look at him differently when I don’t have it either. But this is why I go to my daddy first. If he don’t have it he will help me figure it out….

Wildflower :

As a friend, honestly, I understand. Knowing me, I'm asking GOD, to bless him too.

shugakisses25 :

You can't blame the man if he doesn't feel obligated to give her anything. If him saying no means THEY WERE NOT FRIENDS IN THE BEING. It can come off as SHE IS TRYING TO USE HIM

Nekeisha Decan :

first off ,you got to understand , he can't do it because you don't know his pockets and you got to respect that too 💯 .

Rita :

Never ask a man/woman for that kind of help! That’s a big turnoff for me!

dailyspectator :

IF I had to ask him for help and he was unable to assist, then it is what it is… I need to move on and figure it out. [Innocent]

KAT_CON❌ :

I’m not upset about it, I will understand

bjfoster397 :

Baby you can say no...sometimes friends don't repay... I'm petty I want money back no matter how much I got.

Valerie McAlister Walker :

First off I would never ask.

Angelique :

I wouldn't ask a friend. I have SEVERAL brothers and a father being the only girl and baby they know when I need something

Angel's Mommy :

Honestly, he's not obligated to provide assistance to people. His pockets are nobody's business,

1deeliteful1✨ :

He’s still the friend- the first time he says no don’t change the friendship- honestly.

Thundakat15❌️ :

Most mature women of quality have gotten away from asking "friends" for things...WE tend to rather pay for services or make it happen. Now if this were my romantic partner, this may be different. I personally don't ask men for things, they have always just DO!

Shaun Butler :

TT :

We are still friends good, bad or indifferent.

Juanita L. Lewis ♓️🎀 :

I would say okay and call someone else for help/assistance. I would believe him until I find out different.

Charlene💋Blu❌️ :

I'd have to respect his word! I don't know what all he has going on in the background. Whatever the relationship is it will remain the same. He may ask me for something that I either can't or just don't want to do oneday. Friends can say "No"

Ldyvern6 :

He’s still my friend and he has a right to say no,that no doesn’t change anything if it does then you wasn’t a true friend to begin with. Real talk✌🏽

Mia Jackson Payne :

He still be the same in my eyes as b4… it’s his $ and if he cn’t or dsn’t want to it’s his right cuz it’s his $. Nobody always has to say “yes”

Triciamoore1072 :

He owes me nothing.. he is not my husband.. I owe him nothing.

ReeRee :

Life happens…even if he has it and tells me no that simply means he doesn’t have it to let me borrow. I’ve learned that if I expect it back then I don’t have it to give. I can respect that. I hope that makes sense 🤗

Retail Coach :

A REAL friend would understand .

Melissa Tha Great :

He is still good. It’s never going to be an issue. I’m not ever going to be mad whether he has it or not. It’s absolutely ok.

Tosha :

Key word...PERCEPTION. You can't count other people's money. You don't know ow how his finances are set up. Maybe he has a "no help" rule.

Sexyblakk(Selina) :