@themccabelife: ✨️ There's a difference between a survival need and a relationship need. There are many things that may not be required to sustain human life but are vital components to a strong & healthy relationship. Telling your spouse that their desires "shouldn't" be needed will create such shame and disconnect in the relationship. If your spouse is desiring a form of connection you are resisting, ask yourself why? If you are struggling to build connection, head to our bi0 to inquire about our relationship coaching program. intimacy Marriage counseling marriage coaching relationships #marriage #relationships #intimacy #marriageadvice #marriagecoach
what happens when she is going through perimenopause? it all changes everday
2026-10-23 10:31:09
1
dcdcdcdcdcdcdcdc82 :
Like I’ve said before, if men treated wive’s need for emotionally intimacy the way women treat husband’s need for sexual intimacy, teh divorce rate would be 99%
2026-10-22 18:54:24
25
dbchc50 :
Yeah, it’s true I don’t “need” it any more from my wife because it’s a bother, a chore, and a pain for her. It’s a pain also for me to buy her little gifts, so random nice things for her, and make sure she has a home that’s paid for with money for food…. Guess I just won’t do those things
2026-10-22 19:01:09
9
Robert | Author & Veteran :
It’s worse when you’re told you need to ask for it. Not because she doesn’t love you. But because it doesn’t occur to her. Accommodation is not intimacy.
2026-10-30 23:31:10
2
curt12858 :
The online narrative strongly trends to defining need differently for men and women. Women are "allowed" to call higher order needs as needs while men are limited to only the lower order (aka survival) needs. And then people wonder why men exist in "survival mode" so often. A good relationship is built on both people working to build both parties up out of lower order needs and survival into thriving people.
2026-10-23 20:02:34
7
tmanandjimbo :
I think it should be a need for her as well. It’s definitely one of the two things that cause most divorces the other one being money. I desire (need) to be with my wife it’s a vital part of any marriage. Loose it and you lose your marriage
2026-10-23 08:59:21
6
skilledpirate :
It is better to live alone brothers
2026-10-29 17:48:54
3
kristina_with_a_kay :
Telling me that “you would do it if you loved me more” isn’t asking or making himself vulnerable.
2026-11-01 17:14:10
0
Clint :
Marriage isn't a need either.
2026-10-31 07:27:51
0
just4kicks84 :
Wish I had this advice/information 17 years ago
2026-10-31 05:31:03
2
karlsoestmeyer :
in the beginning my girl pressured me to perform for her more often and she even told me she would look elsewhere if I couldn't live up to her expectations. now the tables have turned now I'm telling her if she can't find time for me I will look elsewhere
2026-11-04 17:06:06
0
pieterhoe :
And I love listening to your content thank you ma’am
2026-10-29 16:50:38
1
Damocles :
and making resentment
2026-10-31 06:22:33
1
JDavid📚Author :
Ever heard of the name “Maslow?”
2026-10-23 16:31:47
1
user53612254990116 :
Walk away
2026-10-31 03:07:48
0
pieterhoe :
That’s both sides just not the wife but the husband is just as at fault weather it is mental or emotional or physical just my opinion I just can’t blame the wife without blaming myself as well
2026-10-29 16:49:43
0
Jeramy With An A :
Until the one that is begging for it is the woman, and then it is the relationship’s top priority. And If she doesn’t get what she’s looking for, then there will be hell to pay.
2026-10-23 13:13:15
4
run703 :
She will say no to anything that is asked for
2026-10-23 18:36:18
4
FLSW :
I can summarize all or even most men, men want sex not just to produce a family but they want to feel loved it makes them feel appreciated. Makes them feel seen that is not hard to understand. Why is this confusing for women? We want to feel wanted, appreciated, loved and seen. It’s not hard to understand this it’s common sense
2026-10-29 15:51:00
1
craig rasmussen :
some times you just have ride it out cause your broke and can't leave so you just stay i dont ask for nothing I stay quite ill just wait till she leaves
2026-10-28 19:49:57
0
Brian :
Married women say sex isn’t a need, but a single woman will tell you otherwise
2026-10-28 20:06:56
0
Robin Harthun Shockl :
Men should never lead with the wrong head.
2026-10-22 22:19:26
3
Matt Christensen :
[Red heart][Red heart][Red heart]
2026-10-31 04:07:18
0
user39133285675426393207 :
So they refuse sex but get mad when the guy goes else where to get it.
2026-11-02 01:28:21
0
ipod161 :
When my wife said sex is not a need I felt no shame, I just realized she was full of crap and was nothing more than a liar. She laid the whole time we were dating and could not get enough sex. Men need to start leaving these liars and let them fend fore themselves.
2026-11-02 08:59:56
0
To see more videos from user @themccabelife, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.