@sarahjeansutton: Any others I should set? Do we need boundary setting tips??? ✨ Motherhood is the best opportunity to let go of our inner people-pleasers!! #motherhoodunfiltered #newborns #newbornmom #firsttimemom #boundarysetting
why are people acting like this list is unreasonable
2026-10-23 03:38:16
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Abby :
Must have flu shot
2026-10-22 23:53:38
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jf123456788287 :
It’s giving first baby
2026-10-23 01:14:22
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Emily Parris :
Small tip - don’t tell them it’s “15 days” otherwise you’ll get 100 texts on day 16. Instead just say “we’re not up for visitors right now but I’ll let you know when we are” only when people ask!
2026-10-23 18:21:29
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isthisforreal25 :
I wonder how babies survived before all of these boundaries😅.
2026-10-23 04:14:06
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Mel :
Child & Adolescent Therapist here! 🙋🏻♀️This list made me so happy and proud of you!!!
2026-10-23 00:37:04
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Mak :
ignore the clueless people. these are all VALID
2026-11-08 06:50:32
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Tadiwa Rabecca🤍 :
Iove these
2026-11-08 16:23:21
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Rachael :
So your mom and sister can come over. Not your husbands. Ugh.
2026-10-23 20:48:42
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Taylor :
As a midwife, this comment section is insane lol
2026-10-23 17:10:09
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paige todd | BSDH | RDH🦷 :
Girl idk what these comments are, as a FTM to a 5 month old, hold firm to your boundaries. You’re allowed to change your mind, or not, it’s your baby
2026-10-23 16:54:14
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Mama P :
Yeah so we’re due in December and we’re not doing ANY holidays with anyone. I’m so scared of baby getting RSV
2026-10-23 00:30:01
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elida💓🦆 :
I am so sorry you’re getting so much hate!!! Good for you for protecting yourself and baby. Those first two weeks of their life is crucial for bonding, what a special time to have with your husband and baby!
2026-10-23 15:13:10
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Ashley :
We let people kiss the foot. With socks on…
2026-10-22 23:11:19
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Joesie Chanel :
We aren't doing hospital visitors & you would think we slapped somebody lol. We've endured a fit since June over this. Literally, triangulation used to attempt to guilt trip us into changing this. It's ridiculous and is pushing me away. 😅
2026-10-23 04:49:16
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Florida_sun :
Please include his mom in the first 2 weeks. Let her help! It’s very important to her! As a boy mom we already feel left out
2026-10-22 23:25:23
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Chinelo Nkwonta :
Lmao you guys would hate me in these comments. I made everyone wait 3 weeks to meet each of my 5 babies
2026-10-23 00:46:18
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Itme123 :
Girl when I had newborn twins and a toddler I didn’t care who was there, somebody just hold a child! 😂
2026-10-23 00:59:55
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wshawver :
“I’m not going to be controlling …” 😂😂😂
2026-10-23 17:00:40
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Nevada :
I have a 5 month old grandbaby. These are great actually! Us grandparents were the only ones that were able to see her when she was born. Nothing wrong with your boundaries at all!
2026-10-23 01:08:43
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brittybooski 🧚🏻♀️🧝🏻♀️ :
I said no unannounced visitors, no smoking then holding her so they have to have fresh clothes on, no kissing or sniffles, no pictures posted online and in person I’m going to have her come back to me instead of passing her around
2026-10-23 00:04:57
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